I have this one girl (thats older than me by a year) and shes my friend, but i love her. Every girl that ive told i like wasnt my friend anymore.What should I do?
2006-10-04 12:55:25 · 12 answers · asked by Big Mac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
shes plays the same instrument i play(thats how were friends) and shes a cheerleader.
2006-10-04 13:27:33 · update #1
I have guy problems and every guy I tell I like I end up hating them later. So take it from a girl maybe they leave you alone because they like you too and if they keep on being your friend you might find out and that can be tragic if a boy finds out a girl likes him. Maybe this girl won't be that way. Take a risk. I'm sure you'll find a girl one day. I pray for you! Good Luck!!! By the way, I told you this because of experience!
2006-10-04 13:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by fizz_girl12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to figure out what's really important to you. You don't want to ruin a good friendship. Talk with her, not about your feelings, but about where she's wanting to go in life, her interests. She might drop you a hint along the way. And if she doesn't notice your potential now, she may somewhere down the line. Don't lose what good you already have ^_^
2006-10-04 20:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Adrianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just come out and say I love you. Your scaring them away! Work slowly, try to spend more time with her. Tell her how pretty she is, show that your really interested in everything she has to say. Ask her questions about the things you know she enjoys. Chat with her online - it's easier to talk to someone that way, and express how much you like her. Take it slowly, see how she feels before revealing your entire self!
2006-10-04 20:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kristen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, just let her know that you really like her, but dont tell her you love her. those two things are sort of different. if i were you i would just tell her that, then say that you really value your friendship too much for it to be ruined, so you want to stay friends. i mean, i guess thats just if you'd rather not ruin your friendship for a relationship.
2006-10-04 20:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to take a risk...is your friendship more important to you than the possibility of you guys having a relationship?
2006-10-04 19:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by Koi Fish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it in my school there are even girls who date guys that are 3 years younger than them!
2006-10-04 19:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. She'll probably be different! She will probably feel the same way about you!
2006-10-04 20:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by Vanessa<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her before it's too late
2006-10-04 20:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Rg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get too close i mean dont just put it over her head so wait until the right time
2006-10-04 19:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by morenosenorita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ohnest and tell her. If you don't she will never know.
2006-10-04 19:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋