2006-10-04 12:50:42 · 18 answers · asked by leeboog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been with my "ex" for the last two years. In the last year, traveled the world, showed her new things. Bought a house to eventually become our home.
I supported her 100%. Bought food, cooked, cleaned, did laundry, and Took care of her daughter. (treated her like my own)
Suddenly after an arguement, she wanted space...gave it to her and she keeps me in the dark. Now a few months later, she decides she can't be with me anymore.
She refers to a "feeling" of being alone...and that she doesn't want to feel it anymore.
What happened?
2006-10-04 13:00:34 · update #1
Because it simply wasn't meant to be. Find comfort in the fact that you can now move on to meet the RIGHT one. Best of Luck!!
2006-10-04 17:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Memphis qt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While we have to guess what all you had to give means there is one thing you need to know. If you are too giving all the mystery goes out of the relationship for a woman and they loose interest.
It is very hard for us to understand that the nicer we treat them the more likely we will loose them. It is all about attraction and it is something we do not choose.
Some women need for you to hold back, keep them guessing, and generally make your relationship fun and a challenge or they soon loose interest. Especially if someone that does that comes along.
I was put on an e-mail list some time ago that has been a real eye opener for me. This guy is selling a product of course but the e-mails are free and give allot of information. Often he will put letters from men, and woman, in the newsletter about success stories they have using his methods.
Like it or not he has a lot of great points and having been what he calls a good guy all my life I can now see why I never had the relationships I should have had.
Get on his list. Your answers are waiting.
2006-10-04 20:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately she cant recognize a good thing when she sees it, some people are treated so well that they think they can even get better, but then when they find an azzhole .. they start regretting what they gave up.. she's to stupid to see that she had it all with u .. thats all.. she wanted more and got greedy and went to seek it.. and unfortunately there are more "bad" guys then good in the world so KNOW in ur heart she will regret it all one day.. sooner or later.. just dont stop being a good guy, u'll find a girl that appreciates it eventually just is going to take someone that has been treated like crap to realize how great u really are..
2006-10-04 20:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not trying to justify what she did too your heart.
But maybe she felt as if she had lost her self some where along the line , and needed to live her own life and not the life that someone was setting up for her!
You sound like a sweet man and you will find a woman you can treat like a queen .
But don't try to hard because it will make you look a Lil desperate and insecure.
GOOD Luck on finding someone to love you as much as you love them ; )
2006-10-04 20:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by i love my 2 girls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she felt like you were doing everything and she had nothing to contribute to the relationship. When you were planning the trips, the house, etc., did you ask her opinion on any of it or just forge ahead with your plans?
Maybe she felt bad because she couldn't contribute to your situation. It's possible that the more you exposed her to, the more aware she became of her inexperience and lack of exposure. Instead of enjoying what you were offering, it made her resentful.
I think you meant well, but maybe you didn't listen or pick up on how all this made her feel. Maybe you assumed she'd be happy. It's just something to consider.
2006-10-04 21:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may of done way to much for her and she felt like you were to clingy. Maybe there was just no spark in her eye for you. That is ok because there are other women out there for you that will appreciate all you have to offer. Do not dwell on her move on and find someone that is going to love you the way you want to be loved.
2006-10-05 01:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wanted to see if the grass was greener on the other side. Good men are hard to come by. Once she realizes that it isn't greener, she'll be back and hopefully not after a real woman has scooped you up.
2006-10-04 19:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by BB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he didn't have the balls to take care of himself and be a man. Sometimes being a man is what the woman needs... not a pussy boy trying to do everything she wants or says...
I'm sorry, I won't stay with a guy that kisses up and acts whipped all the time. It just sucks...
Be a man.
Sometimes you gotta put your needs first so she doesn't take you for granted.
balance... of course...
2006-10-04 19:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes the girlfriend just isn't in love. Not your fault. Just no love there. It happens to men, too. Sorry.
2006-10-04 19:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They always think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
2006-10-04 20:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋