im writting here cause i been feeling a little that my man is cheating, he has texts in his phone to a girl and when i ask him if girls text him he says NO and then when i ask how many friends he got that are girls he says LEAVE ME ALONE or "YOU DONT TRUST ME I DONT ASK YOU THAT" and then i told him im going to call him when i get back home and he says NO JUST TEXT ME! I NEED SOME ADVICE! LOL
2006-10-04 12:49:57 · 12 answers · asked by MiSsLady1617 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's not enough evidance to make a conculosion such as cheater for him !
but open your eyes because it's possible ! , if i like my gf , i want always hear her voice not Texting .
maybe he get a little bored of you or whatever
sorry for my bad english
gl
2006-10-04 12:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by Soap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems soemthing is cooking here. everyone or man have some girl friends out there but also depends how they handle the "friendship".
I've quite a few man friends whom are married but we're innocent friends but nothing physical and in control of the limits. and always mindful of the family. its unfair to the wife sometimes I think but...
you should know your man well enough whether your "fears" are warranted. but as i know it, one thing will lead to another and its best put right.
you've the right to be fearful and stressed up but dont create any drift in your relationship but handle it tactfully.
personally, its not fair for the man to carry on if the wife objects and thats respect for her. i make a break if any of the guy's wivies feels so.
you're right in feeling so, handle it with tact?
2006-10-04 12:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at one of my church services he showed an example of that. Guys are really doing nothing while girls are just sitting there freaking out about nothing. If hes still with you then hes definantly not cheating. Just have a mature conversation about how you feel that he is cheating and ask him to tell the truth. im sure he won't lie about it. If you don't really like him then just break up with him
2006-10-04 13:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by ♥_pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well- get the gils numbers from the text messages and pretend to be someone else asking for them and ask them how they know him anonymously. Maybe that will aswer all your qeustions if you still feel in doubt of your bf. IF he's telling you the truth- you will find out anyway but don't feel bad ofr finding out your own way. OF course he's cheating!!!
2006-10-04 12:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by mari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman has very good instincts when it comes to cheating so if you think he is, you're probably right. If he gets angry like that, to me it means he is.
Do a bit of detective work ... follow him around and see if you can find out for sure, if you really want to know. If not, just break up with him and find someone who will be true to you.
2006-10-04 12:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime I have ever felt like I was being played it was true.Why would he prefer you text him?He must be hiding you from his other girlfriend.I would call him from a different phone that way he dont recognize the number and tell him you just wanted to hear him confess his love to you!
2006-10-04 12:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he just likes to text.. txting ain't bad.. it's when he starts to dissapear, and not show up, then that becomes the problem.. just hang in there for a little while, it could be innocent, but if it's getting too suspicious, confront him again, but.. wait it out, if more suspicious thing's happen, I wouldn't ignore it.
2006-10-04 12:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fishy to me. If he won't even respect your feelings when you mention stuff, then you should just dump him. Kick his a** to the curb. Don't let him get away with being a scumbag to you. No loyal girlfriend deserves that.
2006-10-04 12:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by sexy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont text him and dont call him either. DOn't go snooping around searching for something you really dont wanna know either. Leave him alone until he is willing to be upfront and truthful to you. You deserve it.
2006-10-04 12:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by tyrawooley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask the question, then he must be cheating.
2006-10-04 12:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋