I NEVER DISCIPLINED MY CHILDREN WHEN THEY WERE YOUNG AND NOW THEY ARE SO REBELIOUS I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO INEED ADVICE PLEASE HELP.
2006-10-04 12:47:27 · 5 answers · asked by Dolores c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you must have some sort of discipline with them. if they refuse to do something then take their prize possession away. whether its the cell, the car, allowance- something. ground them for a day or two and give a extra chore to two. my son learned the hard way when i wouldnt pay for nothing no more him and my daughter learned how difficult is was not to chat with her friends on the phone or computer and when i took her car keys, holy cow, a walk? just start being more firm with them and most of all- if you do something- DONT GIVE IN! or they will continue to walk on you!
2006-10-04 12:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound ugly, but why in the world would you raise children and not discipline them. It is hard for me to imagine that you had perfect little angels when they were young. Your child have no guidelines because they know there is now punishment for their actions. You best bet is to go get some counseling and start being the parent. Giving love and discipline is part of being a parent.
2006-10-04 12:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by littlevae73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats part of the problem,they don't see you as authority.time to put your s**t kickers on and lay down the law!!my son thinks hes the smartest person on the planet and tries to backtalk me all the time.i got sick of the arguing,so i started the zero tolerance rule. if he messes up once or argues once its straight to his room,no exeptions,no privelages.i am not going to be a prisoner to my own child.you know what i mean?
2006-10-04 12:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by kookoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boot Camp. There is a great one in Sweetwater Texas...
2006-10-04 12:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're intelligent, leave them to their own devices. If they're idiots, lock them in a closet until they're thirty-five.
2006-10-04 12:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by pickled_leprechauns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋