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2006-10-04 12:26:14 · 4 answers · asked by zac h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'd define a happy relationship as one where both parties can
Count on
Lean on
Depend on
Love
Respect
Adore
Have Fun With
Communicate With
Be Open With
Understand each other
the main thing is, u have to be able to Trust that your partner will do right for you, and by you. and your partner has to be able to feel the same about you. when both people are constantly working on Themselves, to be good man and woman, and then on the relationship, to keep each other accountable, and do what will make each other happy and satisfied and secure, more likely than not they will be able to get through any obstacles.
when one person messes up, doesn't try, gets bored, is lazy... that's when things break down. that is why in a relationship, you HAVE to both communicate, and be able to work as hard as you can to fix problems, for the better of the Relationship.
i am very happy with my boyfriend right now..but we've had our ups and downs! i've gotten very angry w/ him, and almost broke up with him...but each time we've been able to Communicate and Respect each other's viewpoints, and mind set, and we both have tried very hard to improve ourselves... it is a Never Ending thing..and, if we get married, i know that we still have to Always continue working on ourselves, to be Good Man, Good Woman, and then help each other to be better partners. :) that way no one ever gets bored!! good luck to us all~~~
2006-10-04 12:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's when 2 people click on many different levels. They like the same foods, drinks, some of the same movies, some simular activities like bike riding or playing golf, and they enjoy each others company.
The 2 people also should really enjoy talking to each other and filling each other in on their lives before they met - and also enjoy talking about having a future together.
Happiness can also be when they are conciderate of each others feelings, they give each other their space, they don't snoop in each others belongings, and they respect each others personal descissions.
They should also be conciderate of each others needs and take care of each other - things like sex, back rubs, and making each other comfortable when ever possible.
A really happy couple can spend the whole day together and not spend a dime and be totally happy with each others company.
They also should feel like they are soul mates or so perfectly matched that they can't imagine being with anyone else.
Thats how me and fiance are - and we are very happy.
2006-10-04 19:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy relationships are based on mutual interests and respect. Why do you need a long article? Its not that complicated, people just make it that way by adding all kinds of "IFs" into the relationship. Good Luck
2006-10-04 19:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication
2006-10-04 19:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by nrsebone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋