What do you do when your friend is really getting on your nerves but you dont know how to say it to her???

Question

My friend i go to school with she is getting on my nerves.... But i dont know how to say any thing to her??What should i do?

Answer 1

There is a right way and a wrong way to talk to people. If this person is really your friend, then tell her with the truth. You can't be vague. Tell her exactly what is bothering you. Be very kind and loving with her and if she is truly your friend, this may hurt her a little, but, she will still be your friend in the end.

Answer 2

I have been in your situation. Let me tell you your options.

You have two choice.
1. Keep hiding your feelings and feel uncomfortable rest of your life.

2. Be honest and tell her how exactly you feel and relieve yourself from all disturbing feelings.

Honestly talking, the more you supress your feelings and hiding it makes you a very cranky and disturbed and moody person.

Open up your feelings ( say things in a nice way) and you will start realizing you will feel comfortable that there is more to experience and more to share with all your friends.

When you are comfortable then you can do many other tasks without getting disturbing feelings stopping you all the time.

Remember , help yourself first to help others.

Answer 3

i am going through with that same thing. you should just tell her whats getting on your nerves about her. she might understand and try to fix it.

Answer 4

Tell her you need some space for a while. Tell her it's nothing personal.

Answer 5

ask her or him if there is something about you that bothers her or him, then say o.k. fair enough. now here is what bothers me about you. do not ever be one sided. and take the bad with the good.

Answer 6

How come you can tell us and not her? Tell her she's annoying. Or don't say anything and quit talking to her.

Answer 7

tell her to shut the f........k up!