How gay is gay?

Question

If a guy experimented with other boys when he was young and had one experience in college, but nothing since then, is he really gay?

Answer 1

hmmm, how do you feel about it all. I dont think peopel can answer this question for you... Have you not wanted to see men since college or what? It is brilliant that you experimented- if you're not, that's fine too. i dont htink one expeince makes you gay... but who am i to judge..

Answer 2

Ask yourself these questions:

1) Do I routinely worry about whether I am gay?

2) Do my past experiences with other same-sex partners come up alot when I fantasize sexually? Does this turn me on?

3) Do I still think being with a guy might be a cool thing, even though I now only make it with women?

4) Do I find that I can have very strong emotional feelings for women even though I may not find them all that attractive sexually?

5) Do these questions make you nervous?

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If you answered 'no' to all of these questions, then you are probably straight, even though you've had previous same-sex experiences.

If you answered yes to question #5, then you are definitely gay, and you're afraid to admit it to yourself.

Otherwise, you might be gay, or bi, or even straight. Its up to you to figure that out yourself, through experience. Go out there and experiment (safely) without fear.

Answer 3

Hey man, Your only gay if you wanna be ok?, 1 experience does not mean your gay but I'll bet your a more tolerant of gay people than you woulda been otherwise, everybody experiments in their teens even your Dad, dont worry about it, it's normal and you sound normal anyway, you've got nothing to worry about.

Answer 4

You if you're gay. You can only say if you are or aren't . At one time in everyone life we have thought about being with someone that is the same sex. but that doesn't make everyone gay. You have to try everything in life to know if you like it. right so why wouldn't sex for some be the same way? Not all need to do that but their nothing wrong with it .

Answer 5

It depends who do you feel sexually and emotionally attracted to? You might been sleeping with women since. Does that fulfill you? You know the answer to that. If you like both men and women almost the same then you are bisexual . If you only like women but just wanted to experiment you are straight and if you really like men and women doesn't fulfill you then you are making a fool of yourself and trying to ignore your feelings.

Answer 6

Has it been years? If so, then I would say you were bisexual,or had bisexual tendicies. If you know you are only attracted to women now,then I would say you are straight and just experimented a little. Sometimes this is nessicary to find yourself. Aint no shame in the game!

Answer 7

I would say he was bi curious perhaps. Unless of course, he wants to repeat the experience - then he could be gay. Maybe even bisexual if he is also sexually attracted to women.

Answer 8

Yes that is considered gay.If you're in college I would think you were old enough not to do that.I have never had any thoughts of being gay.Im straight as my hairy legs.

Answer 9

Homosexuality is a continuum; and anyone can be at any 'point' on this continuum or sliding scale between hetero & homo, with maybe bi- being the mid-point. One's own particular place on the sliding scale can also vary, for a variety of reasons.

Answer 10

Depends on the guy. figure most people that are not out yet have a family or just not sure to come out .. anyways peace love and hugs...