Well its complicated. My girlfriend and I have been going out for ninth months but for the past month or two things haven't been the same. We argued a lot and sometimes end up breaking up. Its my fault. Well we were fighting and she broke up with me. She said it was for the last time but i needed her and convince her to take me back. That same day she tells me we need to chill out, which I understood because her life is so ****** up with her family but I just thought it was too soon. I thought they we were gonna stay together but no. I let her go but it feels wierd. We agreed to be friends but I still love her and want to be with her. I feel this way everytime I'm with her even if I'm not with her I feel it. I just feel like my life has fallen apart and I need her back so that it will be ok. I told her that I'm not coming back that this was the last time, but I can't let her go. The thought of her with someone else hurts so bad but I don't really have a choice. I need help NOW!!!!!!!
2006-10-04 12:04:46 · 9 answers · asked by big baby 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are in love. Love sucks big donkey *****.
I hate being in love. It hurts too much. My guy is out of town and I miss him so much I hurt just like you are right now. Why does love have to hurt so much?
2006-10-04 12:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you must feel now that life it's worthless without her. that you would never love again, and that even breathing hurts. Chill out it's normal! When you still love someone is the best time to have a break and rethink the whole thing up. Is she really worth your tears, time, suffering? Don't say yes right away. Please really ponder if you are up for more fights, breakups and feeling miserable. Do you deserve that or do you deserve something better? Be friends chill if you gals are meant to be together (I know it sounds corny) time is the best healer. Besides take care of yourself. you don't NEED nobody to feel complete you are a whole in yourself. Take care try to not fool around that doesn't help and don't hurt someone else just because you don't feel right. Two wrongs don't make a right.. I hope you are ok
2006-10-04 19:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by petit chat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been through this myself. My girl broke up with me because she had committment issues. We broke up for about a month and then realised we couldn't live without each other.
I think the point is that even though it worked out well for myself it doesn't always. I had to change a bit so that my girl would come back to me. I was still myself - just not pressing the issue.
I think that if she doesn't change her mind soon you may need to get over her in your own way. I know I moped and cried for three days after we broke up. I think that you need to know that there may be other reasons she hasn't run straight back into your arms.
Maybe give her some time to figure herself out. If she can't come back to you then know that you had a great love/relationship and it was an experience to grow from.
2006-10-04 22:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww, poor baby, well the best thing that i can tell u is that u will probably have to find someone else to get ur mind off of her!
Not necessarily for sex but a good friend that you can have fun with so that u won't stress urself!
2006-10-04 23:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This has all of the signs that she met someone else. She isn't worth it and you could do a whole lot better than her. Find someone who won't lie to you.
2006-10-04 19:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, hun there ar plenty more fish in the sea... I know it is not what you want to hear, but life is way to short to be so miserable, lighten up. you sound young, so i will give you advice that worked for me many moons ago: to get over somebody, you need to get under someone else.... live your life
ps. please practice safe sex...
2006-10-04 19:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think she still loves you...i know she still loves u..and i think u need to realize or just understand wat she is going through and why she made that decision...u know that if u keep hurting someone then eventually they will go away....and maybe one day they will come back...and becausre she loves u so much .....if u change...then one day she will come back
2006-10-05 09:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by curious george 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like she moved on and it might be time for you to do so too =(
i know it sux!
2006-10-04 20:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by [J3nn] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
homosexuality is immoral.check your bible.leviticus ,read it.find a man
2006-10-04 20:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by markam132 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋