I had him interested at one point but it kinda died down because we could never find the right and person or the time, but now we have our own apartment we have the availability but no person and now that it's kinda old i don't know how to bring it up. I really would like to do but now have it be a everday thing, just for fun, on occassions, u know something to keep us going.
2006-10-04 11:50:54 · 14 answers · asked by the real deal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can say that i do have a relationship for those who think other wise because we have been together for 6yrs and he takes care of me an i take care of him, we have a family it hasn't been about f*** in yrs, we have more then just sex, we have history. And why can't i bring a women in the bed if i want, and that aint gonna chanfe no man mind on wether there going to cheat or not because there going to do what they want to do anyway, I just trying to be smart about it and if he wants another women let me choose and have a say so on who it is. It's just like if your teen daughter is beginning to have sex and u can't control her, so the best thing u can do for her is to get birth control, instead of u being stupid and thinking "Well I talked to her , I don't think she going to do anything". WRONG STUPID, she going to do what she pleases so try to cover her has much as possible. So in my case I'm not approving for him to cheat I'm just making sure I'm covered.
2006-10-04 12:13:06 · update #1
And for those who don't get, that only means that u have already been got.
2006-10-04 12:13:48 · update #2
Oh and mind this man is my fiance, and if he had a problem with it he wouldn't have went for it the first time, so keep in mind he's not going anywhere.
2006-10-04 12:18:41 · update #3
tell him exaclty what you just wrote..
2006-10-04 11:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"just to keep us going" ???
Are you an animal with no logical thought in there????
F***ing another person aint gonna improve your relationship. Just because you watched too many hollywood movies doesnt mean you actually start implementing what you see!
I sure hope most girls dont think like you. In my opinion you dont really have a relationship with your BF other then getting screwed by the guy, because you wouldnt be thinking this way in the first place. Such a misreable relationship...
I was depressed 2 mins ago, afrter reading this i realised how lucky i am not to have come across someone like you in my life, thank god.
and no im not a religous "attacker" either. I just have principals.
2006-10-04 18:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by DudeWantsAnswers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are nasty! And you need to think about what u are compromising in the process of this. Sex will no longer be a special thing between just the 2 of you, and he may find it as an excuse to cheat on you in the future.
It sounds as if you are already insecure in your relationship, if you say "Well If they are going to cheat, they are just going to, and there is nothing you can do to stop them". And adding the teen age girl bit into your question, that just shows how immature you are in your thinking. There are ways to prevent teen agers from becoming sexually active , as there are ways to keep your man from cheating. Keep him happy at home and stop thinking like a teenage girl!
2006-10-04 18:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by belinda f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
excellent!
if he was interested once, then there's a good chance he's still keen, but maybe a little shy now that it might become a reality.
are you thinking of adding a girl or a boy to the equation?
how about you bring over the person, have a low key night, with some wine or beers or whatever and then the two of you get cozy while your man watches. he'll soon get the idea and join in and voila a night made in ecstasy.
thanks i'm all hot and bothered now ;-]
2006-10-04 18:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all if he is not into it you should not push him.Maybe this is not his idea of commitment.You should also know that when you open your relationship like this that things will never be the same again.My advice to you is if your happy with him dont try to change things.
2006-10-04 19:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So get an x rated movie and then while watching it say...remember when we once talked about that? and see where the conversation goes. Or you could just go to anywebcam.com and explore there together and I'm sure that would lead to the conversation your wanting.
2006-10-04 18:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's hot! what guy wouldn't want that? but did you want a male or female to join you? I think you need to just bring it up but have the partner ready incase he says "yeah but we never had anyone" then you can just tell him, I have one now! and he will most likely want to do it!
2006-10-04 18:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by precious1982 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you need that to keep yourselves going, then you aren`t going anywhere, except to splitsville.
2006-10-04 19:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just find a sexy dame for number #3 and he will go for it, I'm sure.
If you meant with another man, that's just gross
2006-10-04 18:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
weird things for weird people I guess.....cause I wouldn't want to share my man!
2006-10-04 18:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by guess 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk about it during really hot sex and see if he's still into it. or point someone out who is attractive to you and say, "would you like to have sex with her/him".
2006-10-04 18:54:24 · answer #11 · answered by sweet_shy_blondie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋