Some girl I just happen to go to school with was like "You know you have people who try to be your friend,but you always push them away",and I just happen to ask her friend out(Shes sexy as hell)and then I was like "Well excuse me but I Have a reason".And she was like "ok what is it?"and Im like "When my grandma died(it'll be 5 years this fall)I kinda just lost a connection W/ people so I really dont like to Have people be my friends all that much".And then she just had tp comment with this"Well that has nothing to do with your friends!I've Probally Lost more people then you'll ever loose in your Lifetime!And Your also to Stuck up about it!"So then I went to the guidence Office,and there I just happen to be there crying about it because when she said I was way to stuck up about it,It was like I had just hit a brick wall.So what Do I do for this idiot who just had to say that to me?
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2006-10-04 11:47:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
she just had to comment with this.SORRY!!
2006-10-04 11:48:33 · update #1
May I Add The Principal Was Listening In and she was like"Why should she even be saying anything about your friendships?"
2006-10-04 11:56:49 · update #2
I also forgot to add my grandma died 11 days after September 11,2001.
2006-10-04 11:58:16 · update #3
first of all she has no compassion toward your feelings and she not worth a friendship or a broken heart by losing her. I had to let go of one selfish friend after my brother died she was rude and uncompassionate and most of all she fixed my highschool boyfriend up with her neighbor around the same time my brother died the guy used me to get to go to the prom just to see the neighbor so i cut them out of my life in 1993 , but i forgave her and but she had to apologize to me later because of karma of all the bad she did to a lot of ppl . Not wishing your friend bad luck but to be rude and kick someone when they are down is foul and it will come back on her in some form of karma for her. She's selfish and thinking only of herself and let her go and find real friends. An try and make yourself more open to getting past the grief. Your grandma wouldn't want you to be mourning over her past 5 yrs. Its ok to greive but its only a time period just remember the memories because grandsdma wouldn;'t want you stop living your life in a standstill this long. i've lost my brother in 1993 , and i grieved for 3 yrs and nearly lost my life with greiving i was extremely depressed til 1996 when i started having seizures out of the blue one almost killed me in july of 1996 . i finally had too let go of the lost in 2000, and i feel better i cry a whole bunch less and i remember the fun not the lost anymore. and when his birthday comes around i don't get depressed no more also i got counseling from my pastor at my church , but what your doing by talking to your school counselor is good but reach out to a minister or person who knows how to deal with greif counseling. i'll pray for you and your friend that she learns compassion and how not have foot and mouth syndrome that she has .
2006-10-04 12:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First- Don't regret the fact that you were sad about your grandma and it got caught up in this story, cuz I know what's losing you're love ones and your friends.
I think she got it all wrong! And its your grandma's anniversary this fall so is near there are those times when you wanna be alone! So don't regret anything, just leave it as it is right now!
OK!
Peace
2006-10-04 11:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never talk to her again. She sounds like she has major issues. Is she one of those people that think they have all the problems in the world and nobody is allowed to hurt.....Never talk to her again. Ignore her forever. She's is mental.
2006-10-04 13:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get someone to jump her dumb a**! I promise you'll feel so much better.
2006-10-04 11:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by hacker_mason 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would forget about her.
you dont want her as your friend anyway if shes gunna treat you like that. :)
2006-10-04 11:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by IDNTGIVASHT 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore her she don't understand u.
2006-10-04 11:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by Special 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this tell him how you feel. then move on.
2006-10-04 11:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE,IGNORE,IGNORE,IGNORE,ETC.,ETC.,
2006-10-04 11:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by kman1830 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋