How do you get pregnant if your periods have been irregular your whole life? Please only serious answers.Thanks in Advance, Vero
2006-10-04 11:25:18 · 18 answers · asked by vrayoif 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i had very irregular periods. To get pregnant my husband and I had sex ALL THE TIME!!!! At least 5-6 times a week. It still took us 10 months! I'm 3 months pregnant now!
2006-10-04 11:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know some basic things. Let me help you. Yes I am a guy these instructions were given to my wife and I by a Doctor. Follow my instructions if you and your husband are healthy adults of Child bearing age this plan will work for you
First, you need to understand your monthly cycle.
Write down the date your period starts the first month then the following month write down the date the next period begins. Now count the days that is considered your cycle. Most ladies have a 28 day cycle. The most likely day to conceive is the date at the mid way point between periods. This is when your egg will move down to your womb. For example, If you have a 28 day cycle next month count out 14 days from when your period starts that is the day to conceive for you. Mark it on your calender. Do NOT start counting when your period ends again start counting days when your period begins to the beginning of the next. Some ladies cycle is always different one month it could be 28 days the following month it might be 30 days, but by counting days you can narrow down to the day your egg drops. Continue to track and find that mid point day even it your cycle is alway differnt. To be sure you get the right day there is one other thing you must do. Pay attention is part is important!
Second, Go to Wal-mart and purchase a digital thermometer they have them for as little as $4.00. Put it next to your bed with piece of paper and a pen. Then when you wake up each and every morning without fail take your temperture BEFORE YOU GO TO THE BATHROOM. ITS VERY IMPORTANT THAT YOU DO THIS AS SOON AS YOU GET UP AND extremely important that you take your temperture BEFORE YOU GO TO THE BATHROOM. Record your temperture on the piece of paper. Every morning your temperature should near 98.6 degrees. The day you can conceive (your ovulation day) your temperture will spike 1 to 2 degrees higher then all the other recorded temperatures. When that happens wake your husband up and have him do his part. NO oral please!
Warning if you take your temperture after you pee you will get a false reading - peeing will raise your temperture by 1-2 degrees.
Your Ovulation time is usually only 1-2 days each month. That means you only have one to two chances each month to get it done. Repeat these steps each month until you conceive.
Third, the more sex a man has the lower his sperm count is when your are approaching day 14th (or whatever your ovulation day is) do not have sex make your husband wait until your temperture spikes. It will raise his sperm count through the ceiling. The higher the sperm count the better the chance of conception. When you are trying to conceive the worst thing you can do is have sex every day. Daily sex will lower your husband's sperm count and conception is more difficult. Every other day or every third day is ok!
Fourth, Ask God to help you to increase your faith please read First Samuel chapter 1 (its in the Old Testament) The story is about this lady who could not conceive but she had faith in God She prayed for a child and God anwsered her prayer. Please read it.
Fifth, Sometimes conception takes time if it does not happen as soon as you like just keep trying until it does. Keep in mind trying can be ALOT of fun
Be blessed!
2006-10-04 11:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would say that you need to talk to your Dr. You can try ovulation kits, but they are kinda expensive, and since you are so irregular, it could be costly. Your Dr.is your best bet. Sorry..I wish I could help more! Good luck.
2006-10-04 11:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to get pregnant you have to stop trying to get pregnant and just have fun having sex.
It's not that difficult to do..unless your boyfriend/husband/whatever just isn't up to the task or something. If that is the case, I guess you'll just have to inspire him or something. You know how to do that better than anybody here..
Good luck.
2006-10-04 11:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by La Voce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doctor can prescribe pregestrone to regulate your period and chlomid to help you get pregnant. The "have sex all the time" theory may actually hurt your chances of becoming pregnant.
2006-10-04 11:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by groovychica1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a herb, Don Quai. This should regulate your cycle, and also help to fertalize yourself. My sister had the same problem and it really helped her out.
comes in a pill form and or tea.
Good luck
2006-10-04 11:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by inchantedfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get your period (even though it's months apart) do you get it around the same time?? ask your doc to see when you are ovulating? it is possible to get pregnant i'm irregular and have two kids(surprise)
2006-10-04 11:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doctor, there are medications to help you regulate your period.... There are also medications to help you conceive a baby. In order to get the best answer and personalized care you should talk to your doctor he/she is best for making it happen!
Good LUck
2006-10-04 11:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off talk to your doctor and also try to take an ovulation test. try during your ovulation phase to get as busy as you can this will increase your chances. Good luck
2006-10-04 11:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by tru_blu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was pretty irregular too. We had sex every 3rd day and he was absolutely FORBIDDEN to...."deal with things himself". It only took us a few weeks.
2006-10-04 11:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋