My husband and I were married for 12 years. We are still married, but he moved in with another woman about 1 week after he started dating her. He started dating her 3 weeks after he kicked me out. With some of the things he has said to me and done for me I am very confused. I would like to know if you think he will come back to me and if you think we have a chance of making it work if he comes back. We had a very good relationship together and even his family doesn't understand the whole separation. Even more they do not like his new girlfriend.
2006-10-04 11:10:11 · 16 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like your husband has got mental problems, you should move on even though it may seem difficult
2006-10-04 11:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if his family likes his new girlfriend or not. Obviously he does. The question is, do you really want to be with someone who was probably cheating on you when you were together? Think about it. Would he really move in with someone he just met 3 weeks ago? Probably not. It may be time for a divorce.
2006-10-04 18:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off I'm sorry for your pain. Now, pull yourself up by your boot straps and figure out what you are going to do. If you are not employed, fix it. Move on with your life and start doing things you enjoy that don't involve him. Also, I would put money on it that he knew her before he did this to you. It's probably been going on for a while. She was probably not the first. Let him be her problem now. May many good things come your way ;)
2006-10-04 18:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him back? He kicked you out.. and starting dating and living with another woman so soon after it seems as if he was cheating on you to begin with. I would suggest you to file for a divorce and move on.
2006-10-04 18:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several woman who have cheating husbands,I was one of them.We stayed together for quite awhile but the relationship slowly deteriorated and felt yucky to me. It was because He broke the trust I had in him which was more than a lot. I filed for a divorce but that was my choice and I did not regret it and it's been 15 years since.We are friendly and it is a better relationship now than before we divorced.I wish you the best in your decision.
2006-10-04 18:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was cheating on you from the beginning he just didnt go and stay with her after a week but he aint coming back he has some issues and the way he acting i wouldnt want him to come back
2006-10-04 18:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please leave his stupid a s s why in the hell are you on this website telling us you have a good relationship with your husband newsflash! YOU DONT! he obviously chose the other woman and disposed of you get rid of him like he got rid of you and dont look back! if you even think of hoping that he will come back to you and are waiting for him, then you are truly pathetic and deserve everything he does to you!
2006-10-04 18:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Queen Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well my advice is you dont want som1 like this back i know you might have had a good relationship in the past but the guy u loved wouldnt have done this to u he has changed and will nvr be that guy u loved again i suggest you move on hun and find som1 better who will treat you good forever
2006-10-04 18:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he kicked you out your better off with ought him, he"s not worth worrying about, move on and make yourself happy.If he did come back he might do it again and you or nobody deserves that.
2006-10-04 18:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is time to move on..and if he can start dating he was not worth it..if he kicked you out how did he move in with her,,they were planning this.stay talking to his family,,and find some one who will treat you better...
2006-10-04 18:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋