It's a plastic insertable thing. Don't know if it's being inserted, not asking either. Ok apparently if it's clean it won't cause any health issues. But I don't know if it's being used in a sanitary way. ALSO what about the virginity thing, I don't want that being busted over this nonsense, if it hasn't been already. I could talk to the wife about this, but I'd rather sneak it out, throw it away, and get away clean! Yeah I don't really want to bring my wife in on this...
2006-10-04 11:05:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Sorry roflcopter, it is a serious question, I don't know why it comes out sounding like a joke
2006-10-04 11:14:48 · update #1
Vibrators are usually used for clitoral stimulation, actually. Even if she is inserting it, it's not unsanitary.
She canNOT lose her virginity to a vibrator! Virginity has nothing to do with an intact hymen. It's just a piece of skin that most women are born with that usually breaks during strenuous activities as well as sexual activity.
I don't think sneaking around and throwing out someone else's possession is a good idea. If you're concerned about it, talk to your wife but since you don't want to do it...just trust her. It's a toy, it's not dangerous, and it's a healthy way to explore her sexuality.
2006-10-04 17:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Vibrator Being Used
2016-10-18 05:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by moherek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your wife because this is apparently a "girl" thing. Besides, she is not a virgin since she has a vibrator. What I would do is bring up the question to your teenage daughter and confront her about all the risks of being sexually active. Then, throw it away and threat her that if she buys one again, she's grounded for life. You have to be strict on this topic to strike a fear in her.
2006-10-04 11:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by spirit_filled_2004 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first of all you should probably tell your wife. this is a normal thing for a teenager to do i wouldnt take it away. and if your daughter does use it that has nothing to do with her virginity(assuming she isnt having sex too). "it" can be busted in different ways without your child having sex so that part shouldnt be a big deal....but this is probably something you should tell your wife because there is a chance your child may also be having sex which i'm sure you would want to make sure she is protecting herself...and if you can't talk to her about it maybe your wife could.
2006-10-04 11:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel that it is wrong that you may have been snooping, however now that you found it u must sit with your daughter and talk with her when she comes to u. Try not to inform your wife, however this will be very hard not to do. Throw it away and do not touch base on the subject until your daughter comes to u. Wait a while a see what happens, then talk to her. It is all based on your opinion. Good Luck.
2006-10-04 11:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhhhh boy!!! If the kid has a vibrator, it means it might be used!!! But either you can sneak and throw it away, I'm sure she's not going to come out Screaming..."ok, who took my vibrator!!! I never get any privacy!!!" But I think you should talk to your wife, because either she bought it so your daughter doesn't go out to have sex with dirty boys, or she might be able to talk about it with your daughter!!!
2006-10-04 12:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you sneak it out and then your wife gets the blame then what would you do. Tell your wife, act on it together, you might want to be having a sit down with your child too.
2006-10-04 11:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it. this is your daughters property. i bet ur wife bought it for her. even if she didnt, good money was spent on that thing so you better not be wasting it. I dont see what the big deal is... masturbation is normal and its a hell of a lot better than actual sex... no stds, unwanted pregnancy, or rumors about being a slut. you should tell your wife and let her handle it if you are really concerned and not willing to let it go.
2006-10-04 11:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you throw it away your teen will just buy another one, theres no point in sneaking, if your that worried just ask your teen about it, but honestly a vibrator is nothing, when you find condoms and things like that, that's whe n you should be worried, your teens just experimenting, its apart of growin up..let her experiment on the object as long as it's not a boy dont worry to much...besides she might not even be using it she might have it just to say she has one..
2006-10-04 11:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being the parent you should investigate everything you have the right. I would ask for opinions on a topic like this. Good luck.
2006-10-04 11:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by Precious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋