I think he is gay, My gaydar is a little rusty..... He keeps talking to me and I think he wants to be my friend. (I'm Lesbian he is Gay) What do you think I should do? How should I bring up, are you gay?
2006-10-04 11:01:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I dont think you need to push the issue .Give it some time .He might own up or your gaydar wil start picking up stronger signals.Either way if he just wants to be friends then where is the problem ? Does it really matter that he has to own up .Wouldnt making a new friend (closet or not) be good enough ? Another thing is he is new and probably in need of a friend . Hope this helps .
2006-10-04 21:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by izumi c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's possobile that he could be gay, but is it so much a big deal that you have to initiate discussion about it? If he is, I'm sure it will come up sometime.
Maybe it's just that he's in a new work environment and wants to make a connection with someone in order to get past the "newness"...
2006-10-04 15:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to even bring it up, what is wrong with just being yourself, if he is and he wants you to know he will tell you. Why should it be an issue, people can be friend's straight or gay.
2006-10-04 11:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by preshus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of you're able to make him take a try (one you have made up which he could never probably pass) and tell him that his rankings would be sure his eligibility for protecting his activity. If that doesn't paintings, have CB guard bidness for ya.
2016-10-18 12:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out to a gay club but don't tell him what type of club it is, i've done that and my friend turned out to be gay so it wasn't uncomfortable at all
2006-10-04 11:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get to know him,it will eventually come out. Just be friends if he seems like an alright guy.
2006-10-04 11:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian and my philosophy always was if you have the guts to ask then I will tell you. So I would politely ask him if he is or not.
2006-10-04 11:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by sd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, give it a few days at least....but everyone in a new job needs to people they can count on to help as they train right?
2006-10-04 11:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, but don't be too rude about it.
2006-10-04 11:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by pgenius3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you have a girlfriend? I do....
2006-10-04 18:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by mikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋