2006-10-04 10:55:22 · 6 answers · asked by littlebit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I would suggest that you try for his sake because what he can't get from you adds to the temptation to take the desire somewhere else. That would make your marriage fall apart most likely. After some work and some rebuilding to the passion and fulfillment departments in your marriage then I'm sure you'll have rekindles desire. Of course, this may take some time but as long as you have an open mind and are willing to try then you will succeed.
2006-10-04 11:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know tht the longer you go without sex, the less you could care about it. Hormones is probably playing a roll with you are this time. His your husband terminal? If he is in pain I suspect there is no way that he is interested also. It must be Prostate since he has had it that long. Medication will play a part also. Just ask me? I am going through the same thing. That is one one I do not date, some know that I have been sick but not with cancer. I do not have the nerve to tell them. 90% of mine is the medication. Many folks believe that is a "cop" out but it is not. If I really knew your husband's condition I could maybe advise something as my Urologist advised me, and gave me someting. Good luck, and you have my deepest blessisngs. Some women would have already been out the door.
2006-10-04 11:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are going through. My hubby has a bad back, trouble with his heart. They put him on this pill to help the water around his heart. It has caused problems with his kidneys & sexually. I am scared to have sex with him for fear of him dieing. Now he is off the med. He wants it all the time. But it still scares me. I don't want to lose him. You are not alone in this, you are just one in a million of wifes that go through something like this. It might just be another reason. Good Luck, Becky
2006-10-04 11:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Becky H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your nature will be to accommodate your husband. Therefore you will automatically compensate in your sub-conscious. If it is time for you to move on, do it.
2006-10-04 11:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ruig de Paul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....
and the question is....
2006-10-04 10:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a question.....it is a statement, sweetie!!! DUH!
2006-10-04 10:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋