Ok well where to start.. ever since i was young i have been attracted to both men and women.. I like men love women. (i am female by the way) I had sex for the first time with a women(just her on me tho never the other way around).. Dated her for awhile and when we broke up dated men. I got pregnant real young, and felt forced to be with a man since. But last year I met this amazing woman.i broke up with guy i had been dating for 2 years and started dating her. It was amazing. i broke it off after six months because i was to scared to go down on her. She had sex with me all the time but i was just scared i dont know why. We did other things though. She was and still is mad crazy in love with me. But me and the old boyfriend got back together. Why am i so scared am i not really bi? But then why would i rather be with a woman instead? ( oh yeah i am not down with the oral on guys either) i am a clean freak about my mouth..... help please
2006-10-04 10:49:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well i mean i no i am bi, how do i get over my fear and why am i so scared? I would much rather go down on a girl cause penis is ugly but why cant i get over it? i tried once and backed out cause i got scared i couldnt get her off... idk i am just skrewed i guess.
2006-10-04 10:55:16 · update #1
I no i am in love with her and i know i love him... i also know that they are both great people, and both great parents.. I believe i am an awesome mom.. but who am i to decide that.
2006-10-04 11:30:26 · update #2
courtneyjean,
I want you to know that I understand what you are going through. I can't help thinking that you have some issues, not that they have to do with sex, and not that they don't, that you are not taking care of.
For one thing, people that are in love reciprocate sexually. And that seems to be where I'm led to think that you need the most help in.
SO!
Are you in love? And you child, who's taking care of the child? Are you a good mom?
So what then? Are you in love with being sitmulated, and not the person? Who do you love more, your boyfriend or your girlfriend? Which would be better for your child to have around?
2006-10-04 11:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just don't like giving oral sex, that doesn't determine your sexual preference. Don't force yourself into a relationship with someone based on what you think will be better received by others, but rather by who makes you happy - whether it's a boy or girl.
2006-10-04 17:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by lelecw14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand not wanting to go down on a man or women. I dont think just because you dont want to go down on her it means your no bi, or dont love her. I say go for it with her and see how things go!
2006-10-04 17:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Alyss K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just scared of not being able to please a women... Like you are going to be labeled the Lousy Lesbian..... Really now... Every woman is different... In order to please women you need to pay attention to how they are responding..... I would say get over your fear and practice, practice, practice.
2006-10-04 18:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are bi
2006-10-04 17:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋