I have this friend and we're bffs but I'm starting to rethink it cause she seem like she is becoming better friends with someone else. I wanted to be the person she could tell everything and now im not and I just feel plain left out. She was the only person I could trust and now it scares me I don't have that anymore. I've tried everything to stay bffs but it still seems to get worse. Whenever it's just me and her we actually act like bffs but when its me, her. and the other girl, she acts so mean to me and really rude. ???. And when me and her are just hangin' out in the hall before class were cool but then the other girl comes over and she acts like i dont exist and just walks away from me. I mean she asks me to do all these things for her but when i want her to help me on a homework assignment she automatically says no and this other girl is in my math class and thats the class i was wondering if she could help me in. god my life is so messed up. please someone answer my question.
2006-10-04 10:43:45 · 6 answers · asked by mysteriousgurl12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, take a deep breathe, and get a grip of yourself. Even if she's no longer acting like your best friend it doesn't mean you fall apart. There are many other girls out there would like to be your friend.
Don't ever show anyone that you need them so much, thats giving your power away. Learn to spend some time with yourself, doing the things you enjoy. Explore yourself, get into YOU!
LEARN TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU AND LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. You and your friend need some space. let her come to you. and she will when she sees you being happy with yourself. Good wishes to you.
2006-10-04 10:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Joyous Dawn in the morning 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is indeed messed up. There are much more important things in life that drivel such as this. Oh man...teenage angst. Look...when you get out of grade school you'll see what I mean.
But as a sidenote...life with a husband will really throw you for a loop.
look, honey...want some good advice? You want undying friendship? You want absolute loyalty? Do you want unconditional love and affection and a great friend for the rest of your or their life?
2006-10-04 17:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe a friend, but, not a bff, so chill out and do her the way she has been doing you, it will either result in her turning back to the way she used to be or you having to find a different group of friends, which looks like you are headed for anyway.
2006-10-04 17:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short and sweet....leave it alone and walk away. find someone else to help you in class...she seems to be "conforming" to how someone else thinks she needs to be.
i had a bff for 15yrs all through high school (I'm now 30) and we just grew apart...I fought it for a couple of years trying to stay close to her...but things change...we change...so in the end we all have to move on...
sooner or later you have to accept that she is changing...
2006-10-04 17:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit her down like on the bus on something when the other girl aint there and say are you my friend you hers, because if she is bieng mean to you wen the other girl is there, she dosent deserve to be your friend when the other isnt.she probobly wont admit that she is doing this , but she obviosly likes the other girl better. or find other friends if you are too nice to dothis and avoid her. let me know how it goes
2006-10-04 17:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by samiamw13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the friend for now she will come around.
2006-10-04 17:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋