I have been with my baby daddy for a month and he had to go to his hometown in virginia and i live in minnesota but he is currently living in minnesota but he wont come back from virginia and he knows im pregnant and he hasnt called me or anything i havent talk to him for 3 weeks i did talk to his mom though she said she would make him come back here but thats not gonna happen im scared my baby wont have a dad and im only 17!!!
2006-10-04 10:42:03 · 11 answers · asked by New mom 4 lyfe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Things are going to seem really scarey and lonely, but you be strong for the baby. That is messed up for the father but if that's how he's going to act, you don't want that in your son/daughters head to think what he does is right and ok. There are plenty of guys out there who will do right even if that's not their kid. Don't listen to all the knockle heads writing mean hurtful things. They are heartless, and have no faith. Stay strong, and go to your family for support, that's what their there for. You can do this and you can get through this. Once your baby is here, all the joys and smiles he/she brings will brighten your day. God bless you and yours.
2006-10-04 12:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Bless You 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you scared NOW????Don't be you should of think of this before gettind pregnant, now what you need to do is be calm for your baby if the "dad" doesn't show then he is not a real MEN, & forget about him as your partner because if he is not with you rigth now he migth not be there later on.... He will be your baby's daddy but that's it , you don't need him for anything else, if the baby is born & he still not responsible file for child support that way he can help you economically...If you have your parents or any other close family support then why worry if not just don't worry there will be ways to survive with out him...think for the good of your baby & yours... you will not be the only or the last single mom be proud to be one & love your child more than anything in the world!!! GOOD LUCK & BEST WISHES !!!! :)
2006-10-04 11:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry girlfriend, I think this guy is a jerk and you really need to get over him. You need to take care of yourself and that baby. I know it is hard to go through this alone. seek help from you loved ones and they will be able to comfort you in this time of need. All the wory and stress can be bad for you and you unborn child. you made the effort to contact this low life of a father for you child and you got not response. Move on and take care of yourself. thing will look up sooner or later as long as you have your family. God Bless you and your baby. Good luck. Big D.
2006-10-04 11:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Darren M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he dumped you and your baby. If that's the case, you will have to figure out a way to go on without him. Take care of yourself and your baby. You both deserve the best in life. If this guy don't come back, there will be someone else in your life later on that will deserve you AND your baby. Good luck.
2006-10-04 10:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to some when they rush and don't take precaution. Sorry to say you can't make him be a father to his child but you can get him to help by taking him to court when the baby is born. Right now you need your family and their support to help you through this, if you are not ready to care for the child there is always a loving family who can.
2006-10-04 10:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately if if doesn't want to be there he won't. You need to make the decision of whether to allow him be an occasional dad or not be there at all.
If he is running at 6 weeks, he most likely will just drop in, and this can hurt your child. Let him know what you want him to do, and if he can't to not be there.
2006-10-04 10:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do this, I know the baby needs a father. Women do this everyday they raise their children w/out fathers. He will have to support the baby either way.
2006-10-04 10:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can go to your local Child Support Enforcment office and they can find him for you and they will have real answers for you. Even provide you with a free attorny if things get ugly. Good luck...
2006-10-04 10:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by charlie21205 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saw you coming, didn't he? Ah well, another one on welfare. Did they teach you nothing in school, or were you just too grown up to listen?
2006-10-04 10:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
chick you will be fine trust me i no your only young but i bet you make a great mummy
2006-10-04 10:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by panga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋