Can someone give me at least 5 or more tips for not being shy or quiet?
I been shy and quiet for quite a while now and I think its time for a change.
I'm tired of being called quiet and shy.
Can someone give me some GOOD tips for my shyness and quietness?
I want help I don't want to spend the rest of my teenage life as a shy person.
2006-10-04 10:41:56 · 10 answers · asked by blahblahblah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yeah i had the same problem. but the main thing is just make up your mind - im not gonna be shy anymore. but here some other things anyway.
~talk to everybody, no matter who they are. just be over friendly and say hi to whoever you see.
~be open to new things. if you have the chance to try something, do it.
~dont be afraid to laugh. i cant help but see the funny side of things, and im in tears laughing constantly.
~get involved in stuff you like doing. like i was never really involved in anything, but that was when i was really shy. i always loved band, but i play clarinet, so i was used to being really quiet. but then i joined the marching band and i LOVE it, and im a lot more outgoing now.
but like i said, you're doing good already, you know what you want, so now you just gotta do it!!☺
2006-10-04 10:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I know what you mean, I use to be shy and quiet to, but I came to the realisation that no-one wants to see me shy and quite, I dont want to be shy and quiet, so why dont I just be the person that I want to be? You will find that you make a lot more friends and you can relax and enjoy life more when you come out of shell! Good Luck!
2006-10-05 00:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by okay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Be yourself
2.Be confident
3. Don't care/worry all the time what others think of you [life's too short for that]
4.Be friendly. Go up to people [preferably ones you don't know and who look nice] and introduce yourself. Just be like "Hi, I'm____" Plus you never know, you could even make a new friend that way.
5. And last but not least, have fun. Life is truly too short to be so quiet and just existing in it. You wanna make an impact in people's lives.
2006-10-04 13:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of someone that you talk to that you are COMPLETELY comfortable with. Family? Best friend? A pet?? Now, when you're talking with someone that you shell up around, imagine you're really talking to that old familiar person, so that you can be yourself.
Practice!!!
Smile at strangers.
Strike up a conversation with someone in a grocery line.
Compliment someone. Or ask a question.....anything to get the ball rolling.
I used to be shy too...but then I got fed up with myself. It's not like *some* people just have a RIGHT to be bold and assertive and confident. We're all just people! You have to make the decision to BE who you want to be.
2006-10-04 10:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by applechick 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1) Join social groups
2) Make small presentations on your favorite topic to friends and family. Get feedback
3) Join public speaking course
4) Make lot of friends. Introduce yourself.
2006-10-04 10:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by curious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Be confident
2. Be kind
3. Dont be afraid to spak your mind
4. Walk up to people and say hello
5. Try some clubs at school. People in clubs you are usually have common intrests so its easy to talk to them.
2006-10-04 10:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Practice!
Take a public speech class, they make you talk in front of the class. It takes time and practice to build up your confidence.
2006-10-04 10:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just dont be afraid to walk up to sum1 n say hi b/c if they dont wanna talkt o u they'll let u kno but if they do then u have accompished somthin but if u do nothin u will never no wht could happend
2006-10-05 08:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww! just speak your mind out! dont be afraid of looking stupid! be random! randomness is a good thing cuz imagine if you were exactly like everyone else...now that would suck!!!
2006-10-04 13:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by <3 ROKERITA LOCA <3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try talking to someone
2006-10-04 12:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Avatar: The Last Airbender 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋