I am a newlywed and I need some marriage advice, please anything you have to say will be appreciatied.
2006-10-04 10:28:44 · 21 answers · asked by Gracie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is a lot of work, but so much fun. You two need to put all childish behaviors away and help eachother any which way you can. Put any stubborn, hard headed intentions out the door because they will never get anywhere. Talk about everything, since communication is the key. Trust and be truthful, love and be loved, give your heart to your better half and have a wonderful blessed time!
Also, never go to bed angry! Always resolve your problems right away, otherwise they will eat at you and your relationship!
Congratulations. I wish you many years of love and happiness!
2006-10-04 10:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by marypaz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-11 16:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the same treatment that u want. if u want a loving caring man then be the same. example if he brings u flowers then respond by doing something nice and sweet for him, if he like sweets make him a homemade cake or pie. also don't pull the usuall bait and switch in the bedroom. in the 50's and 60's when the divorce rate was low there was a saying for women and it is this: a woman has to be a lady in public and a complete slut (porn star) in the bedroom. if you do these things he will never fall outa love with u and never loose interest. i know cuz both my wives did not do these things and as far as the sex i did go else were after they kept saying no to anything i wanted
2006-10-04 11:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always hear that communication is key. But, we (my wife and me did not learn until later how to communicate. In short, you must talk about the things that are in your life. For example, make a specific time to discuss finances: new purchases, bills, money, etc. Only talk about finances at that time. It is okay to bring it up other times if it is an emergency, but make the appointment for the "Business Meeting" and stick to it. Then, make dates to keep the romance alive. This becomes especially important after you have kids. But, on your dates, don't discuss business. Keep the romance alive. Since me and my wife started doing this, we've cut down on the friction an awful lot. Good Luck!
2006-10-04 10:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice anyone ever game ME was to remember that you and your husband are a TEAM. Work together for the common good of both of you. When I am ticked off because he gets to go out every Thursday and play poker with his friends (and none of my friends can get away from their families on a weeknight), I try to remind myself that we're a team, and I'm happy that at least one of us is getting to go out and have fun.
Ha. Was that convincing? I really am ticked at him a lot for his poker night. :)
2006-10-04 10:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep a checking and savings account in your name and make sure you check on your own credit rating and file periodically. Watch your finances as most men are totally inept; I have done tax returns for 36 years and speak from experience.
2006-10-04 10:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yayy! i'm a newlywed too! i've found that it's best to just love the person and go out of your way to show it every day. complaining, on the whole, doesn't help a relationship. they find us a lot more sexy when we're going out of our way to show them that we love them instead of griping about stuff that we could easily do...
i've found that in arguments, it's harmless to realize that you care more about the person than you do the thing you're arguing about. it makes me a lot more happy when i know that he's happy, so i do my best to not argue.
2006-10-04 10:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by jenn w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Gracie, be on the same page when it comes to money. That's a biggie. Make sure he doesn't have a history of past molestation charges against him. And make sure he isn't a gas station attendant....
2006-10-04 10:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by gentle understanding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with each other and always keep the lines of communication open. Do not go to bed angry, and remember, do not argue over small things. They will not be important tomorrow.
2006-10-04 10:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK to him...about everything...communication has been key in my marriage (married 15 years and still going strong) Good Luck!!
2006-10-04 10:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by naughtykitty94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋