I miss my ex boyfriend and i love him with all my heart. and he said sometimes he wants me back but something is stopping him to ask me out. how do i get him back...
2006-10-04 10:21:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just start spending more time with him and show him wat he is missing and remind him about what he could have
2006-10-04 10:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I totally disagree with the others, jealousy is going to do nothing...think about it do you really want him back because he doesn't want to see you with anyone else, or do you want him to be with you because he wants to? And I don't agree with spending more time with him then he'll realize what he's missing...HELLO DUH? if your with him he's not missing anything. That answer totally came from a guy...because he wants his cake and eat it too! I say tell him how you feel and if he already knows then cut it off, you deserve a man that loves all of you and is grateful and excited to be with you. Why should you settle for half? Make sure you really want him back is he really your only love for the rest of your life? We all date to find our soulmate and get married right? thats the end result and if you don't see him and you at the end together, then totally move on...It doesn't even have to be with another guy, it could be picking up a hobby or going to the gym to blow off some steam and you never know who you'll meet. Goodluck and remember begging is not hot!!!
2006-10-04 10:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by amgpsycho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone once told me "there is a reason that they are your EX boyfriends or girlfriends."
Something wasn't working out when you were together. That problem may show up again if you get back together. I would just give it up to God. If it's meant to happen it will. DON"T DRIVE YOURSELF CRAZY worrying about it! It'll all work out how it is supposed to. You're young (i'm guessing) and your whole life is ahead of you. Don't let a guy distract you, stay on track and focus on making the best of yourself.
2006-10-04 10:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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They might realize they need you and come crawling back!
If you do get back together, don't let the same issues that destroyed your relationship crop up again. Have a good, long talk about how you're both going to make it right this time.
2015-01-28 11:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem once well i still do it was hard for me not to be with anymore. were friends now and it hurts more being his friend. so don't pretend to be his friend you'll end up driving him more away why don't you make the first step ask him if he wants to go out or ask if he still digs you and if he thinks you guys can get back together.
well i really don't know best of luck and for all you other girls going through the same thing
2006-10-04 10:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by provenmazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie around moping and whining for sure. Get involved in activities that will help you grow as a person or health wise. wihile you are waiting for him to get his act together.Maybe learn about something he is interested in and do it.That way if you get back together you'll have more in common.
2006-10-04 10:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by nancy e 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-27 17:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't seem too obvious. dont try to make him jealous because all he'll do is try to make you jealous back. ask him what went wrong in your relationship. flirt with him or kiss him then leave so you can leave him guessing and think about you all night. then talk to him the next day and see what happen wear something sexy
2006-10-04 10:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by aisha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but he sounds like a 'bad egg' . You deserve better. Forget him.
Please don't tell me you would waste your time sitting home waiting for "him to decide if he wants you" ? No Way. Kick him to the curb. and move on.
He doesn't get to have you. Find someone who knows they love you.
What you feel is not love ..... it is pain.
2006-10-04 10:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by kar_summers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what is stopping him from asking you out again?obviously you too still feel for each other.Think about what brought you two apart and what can you do to make it better.Do not beg him.If you ahve already told him how you feel and he is not making a move,let it be...for a while.if you know you are going to see him somehwere,make sure you look damn good,give him a chance to miss you,let him understand that he can lose you for good.that without words.
2006-10-04 10:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never dig back through your own garbage bin honey, you two broke up for a reason, and the fact he would make that choice, or that he would take you back after you made the choice is to resort to your own rubbish.
Sorry it hurts, but it won't forever
2006-10-04 10:23:54 · answer #11 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋