I met her when she was 15, and I was 24 I was'nt feeling her as much as I do now. She's not feeling me as much as she did ten years again.
2006-10-04 10:11:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
It's because you both have changed over the years...especially her. See when you met her you were pretty much done changing your perceptions and outlook on life, while she was just learning how to have her own perceptions. Now that she is older her opinions/viewpoints changed somewhat. High school romances rarely work out for this reason. While you may love her I'm sure she loves you--however she may be wanting to have fun right now (depending on how old she now is...)
It seems like the age difference is what is affecting you both--thats a large gap for a couple, especially a couple who started out soo young. Just talk with her about it and ask her to tell you the truth no matter what.
Believe me she will always care for you since you are the father of her child.
2006-10-04 10:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think i can be of to much help but i will tell you what i can
i am sort of in the same situation. my boyfriend and i have a 4 year old son and he is 10-15 years older then i am ( i don't want to be to specific :P ) we were together when i was 15 and had split up a few years later. since then i was married and divorced and he realized what all he missed in that time. he realized that he was being foolish in thinking our ages were enough to break up.
we have been together ( again ) only a matter of weeks and i know its meant to be. he sat me down and told me why he did and said the things he did in the past. he told me just exactly what he felt and feels for me. i guess the moral of the story is just be real honest. confront her about this. maybe something is going on with HER . TALK to her.
i told you i could not be too much help but i hope i helped at least a teeny bit :P
good luck!
2006-10-04 18:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, people grow, change, and they grow up. if your feelings have changes that much, the best thing for you is to sit down and have a heart to heart talk. p.s. not just about yourselves, your realtionship, your kids, where you want to be in the next few years. and remember this isn't just aabout you, its your kids and other half.
2006-10-04 17:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by tgdjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without birthdata the only way I can answere this question is with another question. How was your parental influence? Did they get along well?
2006-10-08 11:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by moire1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the both of you are willing to work at a relationship it could work. If noth of you aren't willing to work on it then I don't see how you can have a relationship.
2006-10-04 17:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she grew up and you've remained the same.
2006-10-04 18:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by sjhgov 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋