I don,t think i can trust very easy, i have a few men want to go out with me but i feel let down lately and don,t know if i want to go through it again. i was on my own seven years before meeting someone and then he let me down and i have a few others want to meet me but i do not know if i will get it again.
2006-10-04 10:11:47 · 10 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my suggestion is that you dont get into a relationship and go get some counceling ... im not saying that you are mad ... but its good to get your issues about relationships out in the open and understood
2006-10-04 10:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by tweetybird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a very difficult thing, because as you know, once you trust somebody, that opens up the possibility of getting very badly hurt. The safe bet is not to trust anyone; that way you certainly won't get hurt. The only problem with this is that you will also never have the possibility of having a proper relationship, and you will miss out on the happiness which that can offer. Obviously you have a very big decision to make! However, it may not be that dramatic. Why don't you just start off slowly and talk to the person you go out with. Get to know them. You don't have to rush into anything and there's nothing wrong with having a social life! See if you enjoy being in that person's company; talk to him about your experiences, and see if he understands, etc. If he is the right person for you, he will not only understand you but he'll be prepared to wait for you. By then you'll know if you've found somebody you feel comfortable to trust.
2006-10-04 10:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by John P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are clearly not ready to meet anyone else yet, and I know how that feels. Go out and enjoy yourself and don't even think about meeting anyone else yet. You need to find yourself again and be happy in your own company, once you feel like this then start looking at other relationships but not before. Remember we all need friends, so make sure you talk to those that are close to you. Good luck and have lots of fun.
2006-10-04 10:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tina W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar spot and have been asking the girls this very same question. Despite their mixed responses, I have come to my own thinking... How will you ever know if you don't try for it? Trust shouldn't come to anyone easily - along with respect its earnt, not automatically received. Or at least it should be. Enjoy the time you spend with the men in your life, and if one in particular earns your trust then fab. If not, at least you'll know. If you don't give anything, you don't get anything back. Good luck x
2006-10-04 10:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by giddysparkle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to trust people again, otherwise you will always think that people are going to let you down. Try going out on a date see how you feel, if you don't feel it's right after the first date then you don't have to commit to it.
2006-10-04 10:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by sugarpuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a tough one.
No 1 - a lot of guys can be bastards and might let you down!
No 2 - Not all guys are bastards!!!! And plenty wont let you down. Go out with people, be protective of your feelings, but dont close off the possibility of letting someone in
Theres always the chance of being let down but if you dont try, you'll prob never find the right person.
Go for it
2006-10-04 10:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Peadar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont go for it you will always wonder how it might of been.
if they let you down do it back to them
good luck hun
2006-10-04 10:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on what you want to do. Basically its yuor choice at the end of the day
2006-10-04 11:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kiran urf msa sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart!
2006-10-04 10:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont really understand your question can you please rewrite it so i can understand it and really earn my 2 pts.
2006-10-04 10:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by bdjones_78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋