When i was with my last partner she used to go on about her EX a lot and revealed intamit details about the love life they had and i really did not want to know but still put up with it as i had strong feelings for her.I did eventually end it with her as it was causing problems later on in the relationship because it scarred me quite bad.problem is i dont want that bad experience to cause problems in future relationships even though the person im with might not do anything wrong.Help me plz
2006-10-04 10:10:26 · 9 answers · asked by sherminator 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She was hurting you intentionally, definitely not a good girl. Not a keeper. More like bang and keep distant, but don't invest feelings in that trash.
Someone trying to keep you down, thats terrible. Even worse in a girlfriend. You'll get over it 100%, like we do with everything else.
2006-10-04 10:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by maneone22 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My friend had this problem as well.. I think maybe alittle more detail would help, but ill try to answer as i know where your coming from.. Had you ever talked to her about it and said how you felt about her talking about him, and asking her if she was really where she wanted to be(with you) or did she really want to be with him.. I think that if you just communicate with your girls that you'll be just fine, just tell them you dont want to hear about their past, this is the present, you only want to hear about the present, not the past and maybe you might not even want to talk about the future, as for getting your hopes up for something new to you.... Best of luck!!!!! Just be open and honest!!
2006-10-04 11:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was very insensative or insecure. why need to go on about someone else all the time?? she maybe felt insecure about herself and wanted you to feel insecure aswell.?? i know i wouldn`t like it if my man spoke about his ex all the time!! don`t worry,you will get someone who loves you for you and won`t try and compare you to anyone else. don`t let this affect you,it was probably nothing personal,maybe she never really got over her ex or got into a relationship too soon after him!
take care.you will find someone for you.xx
2006-10-04 10:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by nicola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there is a pattern developing. She harps on about her ex...now you harp on about your ex. Get over her. find somebody new. Life is too short and there are too many great people to meet up with (and if you are lucky some will want to sleep with you)
2006-10-04 10:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need a break of a few months from females.
2006-10-04 10:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she still loves her ex.
2006-10-04 11:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by bigdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry it will pass!just not think about it!focus on your current girl friend and everything will work out just fine!
best of luck!
2006-10-04 10:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get with a minger who has never had a proper boyfriend before she wont talk about her ex.
2006-10-04 10:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself don't start a relationship on lies
2006-10-04 10:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by tiggerbabez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋