... know when I was starting,beating her. but when i became aware I was doing it,like a mad person. fortunately my child wasn't at home I wasn't like this before! she didn't tell me even a word. only came to her room locking the door. it seems she doesn't hear me now. she only talk with my son. I dont know what can i do....plz help me
2006-10-04 09:55:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey! I had the same problem with my ex wife. I would come home and before I even got my foot in the door here she comes ranting and raving over this and that, bitching at me all the time over nothing. I never beat her, but at times I sure felt like it, so I know exactly what you are going through.
2006-10-04 10:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's a gag question, then strengthen up and stay in college because your english isn't so good. no matter if that's for genuine, then you quite require professional information NOW, see a counselor, and keep seeing them till you've your topics worked out. in the recommend time, flow out of the homestead you percentage with your spouse, your relatives could no longer be endangered even as you search for clinical care. then you quite favor to beg for forgiveness out of your spouse. yet in search of professional help is the most important challenge for you immediately. bypass into the emergency room on your interior reach well being middle and ask for a psychiatric search for suggestion from. good luck, and that i wish that's a comic book tale, yet no matter if it isn't god help you. Oh through ways, there is not any honor in hitting a lady, ever. And in case you achieve this, then that would not make you a guy, it makes you a coward to attack sombody who can not guard themselves from you.
2016-12-04 06:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by fiddler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all .. is she physically okay ? Is this the first time you have beat her ? .. If you really love her .. you should find a new place for YOU to live until you find out what you are so angry about. It is NEVER okay to hit another person .. whether it be your wife, husband, or someone on the street. But your wife is stuck with you in the same house.. that makes the situation for her very dangerous. You need to seek out a counselor .. anger management classes .. but the first thing you do is move out of that house .. Take her into consideration FIRST.
2006-10-04 10:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you heard of the burning bed you are sick and I can't believe you are on here telling how you beat your wife for loving you. I say be a real man and leave her because your son don't need it and her body don't either. You are a woman beater and you need to move on!Most importantly do grammar check...because if you are ignorant enough to beat your wife at least be smart enough to do grammar-check before sending out a message about it....Dummy!
2006-10-04 11:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by phas_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously in no way do i condone violence of any sort, but if she really won't speak to you then the best thing you can do for the moment if go away. i don't mean forever, just give her space. she will feel rather threatened by you at the moment... so you have to take a step back. do NOT keep approaching her asking if shes alright. because of course she will not be.
again, i am NOT speaking from experiance or condoning anything you may or may not have done, i am mearly giving my opinion.
but i reckon you should leave her be for the time being. that time being now!
2006-10-04 10:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a relative to mediate. You'd better wise up to your actions and start acting like a real man.
A real man does not beat anything but his **** when his wife's away!!! You'll have to be kinder than usual and allow her time to heal emotionally from this. It's the emotional part that she'll be feeling for a long time. Jerk.
2006-10-04 10:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Andy, get some help. Find a Men's anger management group, see a counselor to talk about whatever issues from your own child hood made you this way, or talk to your local shelter for battered woman.
There is no excuse for domestic violence and it's good that you recognize you made a big mistake. Now take the steps to correct it, for yourself (so you don't end up in jail) and your family.
Good luck Andy...and you are a very strong man to admit this!
2006-10-04 10:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all .You shouldn't beat up your wife for any resaon even if you are mad ......if ever you feel like you are going to repeat that awful mistake just think of the consequence for later......... just ask yourself do i really love her? If i do then why do such horrible thing which will create distance in your relation. The reason why she is avioding because she is scared now if you contunie to do this it might ruining your marriage ....simply talk things with her and let her know that you care for her. ...i hope this helps you
2006-10-04 10:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you owe her something big time other then a fricken sorry. I wouldn't talk to my husband either if he tried to beat me. First of all I think you need to take an angermanagment class. I used to have a problem controlling my anger so i took a few classes and found other ways to use my anger up (husband bought me a punching bag).
2006-10-04 10:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by Robyn D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself some help man and get away from her and your child NOW!!!! Once you have the help you need, then and only then should you be allowed to see them again. Call the police station and tell them that you have beat your wife and need some help.
2006-10-04 09:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by LuLu G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋