this girl is retated?

Question

i cant stand this girl in my class, she is all the time saying she is pregnant. why would she want people to think that about her self, when she isnt, cause she said it like 4ever ago, and hasnt shown yet

lol i see i spelled that wrongg. im not very good for typing on the computer. the reason i dont like the girl is because in middle school i used to be best friends with her. and her mom is half black and her dad is white. that makes her 25% black...right? and she stopped being friends with me because i am white...which is like the dumbest thing ive ever heard. but yeah i know she is trying to get attention. i just posted this, cause im trying to post sumthing in every category. thanks

Answer 1

What's retated?

Answer 2

OMG thats freaky! I know a girl exactly the same! Her name is Emma and through senior school she kept saying she was pregnant and I went to the doctors with her and he said she was just fat not pregnant.

She done the same when she got a job working where I was (Crappy job while I was at college)...she said she was pregnant and a year and a half later (still working there), she said the same thing. Her boyfriend told the whole of our workplace that she confessed that she actually a virgin and I overheard her telling him thats he was!

Total attention seeking!

She even had the balls to say that she lost her viginity to her DAD (this was two months after the work thing) and what she didn't realise was that her dad was dead. (Her mom was a single mom and she never saw her dad-they were trying to trace him for Emma and her mum left a message at work to say that her dad had died over a year and a half ago!)

We are both 19 yrs old and she has been saying that since she we were 15years old!

Blatant liar and attention seeking! I feel sorry for her because she has the potential to be a really good person and 'genuine' but....

Answer 3

IIf I am to understand you right, you mean the girl is RETARDED, which is rather harsh, and why is it that you cant stand this girl?

It begs the question, has she got problems, maybe she is, maybe she was, maybe she is trying into integrate with a group of girls who are bullying? You seem to show her very little empathy, could you be bullying her unknowingly?
What ever the reason, she clearly is a very unhappy girl, perhaps iyou could try and befriend her and help her go for help - what ever help she needs - that would be such a nice kind thing to do, and perhaps make you feel all the better for it?

Answer 4

hi yeah my exmate kept telling us she was pregnant and that she had been raped but no baby so far and this was at the begining of year 10 and we have now just started college so its been 2years since she 1s told us. over the past 2 years she has supposidly been pregnant about 6-8 times and no baby so far and she reckons she has been rapped about the same amount of times and once was by a police man and also she has tried to ell us she has breast cancer this was just a few months ago. my mum was going through cancer herself and i found it really upsetting that she could lie about that and also she new theat my mum was pregnant with twins and 1 died and so she made up this sory that she was pregnant with twins and 1 died and i just found it so upsetting.lately she has been telling my mates who are in the same college as her that she is pregnant again. 1 day she will regret all these stories as something will happen and no1 will beleive her.
i no she is just afer attention and there isnt really much you can do about it.

Answer 5

I had one like that at my school! My goodness me she told us she was pregnant about 5 times, she kept having miscarriages or just forgetting! It's just attention seeking don't worry about it. Like this girl would tell us she'd been raped (sick I know) but we'd all be like, "yeah, but eastenders was good though wasn't it?" just to let her know that we don't believe her anymore. I think the last straw was when she told us she was dying of cancer, I thought that was pushing it a bit.
All you do is - I don't know, you could try giving her attention for the little things so that she'll get more self esteem and stop lying, or you could totally ignore her. Feel sorry for the poor girl really, you have to wonder what makes people do things like that!

Answer 6

attention starved girls lie a lot. especially about rediculous things like being pregnant. but then again, some girls dont show until month 4 or 5 so she still might be pregnant. you should bring it up tomorrow. say something like hey (her name), have you figured out if ur having a boy or girl? or ask her who the father of her baby is... something to find out if she really is pregnant.

Answer 7

i think you meant retarded LOL....

i remember a girl at school who said she was pregnant, then 2 weeks later said she had lost the baby by throwing it up i mean how stupid is that.... the only way i can think that she is doing it is for the attention and to feel womanly, but quite frankly it ain't something to be lying about is it, its a serious matter, i would confront her about it and state that its not something to lie about and that at her age whilst still being at school people are not going to think much of her.

Answer 8

. She says things like that to make people think or even to let people know that she has had sex before. She probably has never even been exposed. People like that try to make themselves look like somebody that they really are'nt. She might think she will have a better reputation if people think she is easy. that is so not true. i have a 14 year old son, and there are gilrs in his class that have been around already and he says that they are nasty. that is not attractive (bragging about having "been around").

Answer 9

just ignore her my children are mixed race and i am sure its not cause you are white dont say that talk to her if she is your best friend or was there must be a reason for this dont just assume. a friend in need is afriend in deed if all else fails like i said ignore her if she values you has a friend she will talk to you

Answer 10

ok look im not tryin to be mean or whatever but seriously, what can we do about it? we dont go to your school, dont know you or the girl, and if everyone knows shes not pregnant, why do you care what she says? she wants the attention, and youre giving it to her. if you leave her alone and dont even respond when she says that she'll probably stop

besides, your the one that cant spell retarded right.

Answer 11

lmao@retaTed and asking a question like that.

maybe she likes the attention and maybe she is pregnant. women show at different times.