im 13 and i think im having a............?

Question

im 13 i found out one week ago i was pregnant..btw im almost 4 months. ive had bad cramps and i have been bleeding a lot..wats the matter......no rude anwsers

am i having a misscariage

i dont see clots or anything its just heavy bleeding which hurt a lot.............for the people that answered my other question thanks i told my mom and see took me to the dc and told me everthing was fine.....but i dont know wats the matter now

im not 4 months yet im still 3 months

Answer 1

If you're serious you need to find your way to an ER right now! That's not normal! Your baby might already be gone, but your life is in danger too. Make your parents take you immediately, this is a life threatening condition for someone so young.

Answer 2

I'm really sorry sweetie....it sounds like it, but maybe not. I bled with my son and he was fine.

You need to get to a hospital....at your age this could be a very big deal.

Tell a grown up you trust and get some medical help right away. I know that may be scary for you, but this could be a tubal pregnancy (the baby could have started to grow in your tubes instead of the uterus) you could rupture and die.

If it is a normal miscarriage you could still get a terrible infection which could be deadly or make it impossible for you to get pregnant when you're a grown up.

Then.....sweetheart....13 is too young for sex and the responsiblities that come with it....stop it or at least use protection from pregnancy and STDs.....

GET TO A DOCTOR! Good luck and God Bless you!

EDIT: THIS IS HOW A MISCARRIAGE CAN WORK. THINGS CAN BE FINE ONE DAY,BUT NOT THE NEXT PLEASE TELL YOUR MOM AND GET TO THE DOCTOR.

YOU MAY NOT BE LOSING THIS BABY, BUT NOT GOING WILL NOT HELP YOU. YOU COULD GET REALLY REALLY SICK.

Sorry for the bolds, but this is a new edit...please go get checked!

Answer 3

You did the right thing by telling your mother and going to see the doctor. I do not understand why the doctor is telling you that everything is fine because heavy bleeding is a bad sign that something could be wrong.

You might have to go back to the doctor or the emergency room, so that they could do further test to make sure that you are not having a miscarrage. (Good Luck)!!!!

Answer 4

Go to emergency. When you are almost four months and bleeding like that, you have to see a dr or you could bleed to death or get a really bad infection. I hope that you have been seeing a dr since you found out, not only for the baby, but for yourself, since you are so young.

Answer 5

well Hun you need to get some support be it your mom or partner you need someone to help you get through this. Have you been to the doctor? and have you told anyone that you are pregnant? If you haven't you need to get some body to comfort you. Get to the doctor as soon as possible a light blood flow is called spotting very normal but heavy flow could mean a miscarriage good luck to you

Answer 6

The best Answer I can Give you is to go see a doctor as soon as possible. Something may be wrong with the baby or even you. Jus make sure you go get checked out soon for your health and the babys.

Answer 7

You may be having a miscarriage, although there are other reasons for bleeding in early pregnancy. Try not to panic, but get some help,parents or friends. Its very important for you to get to a doctor or hospital as soon as you can.Good luck, hope all goes well for you.
Bleeding from the vagina in early pregnancy is very common. In fact, it is thought to happen in almost one in every four pregnancies. The medical term for this is a threatened miscarriage. First trimester bleeding is any vaginal bleeding during the first 3 months of pregnancy. Vaginal bleeding may vary from light spotting to severe bleeding with clots. Vaginal bleeding is a common problem in early pregnancy, complicating 20-30% of all pregnancies. Any vaginal bleeding during
the second and third trimesters of pregnancy (the last 6 months of a 9-month pregnancy) involves concerns different from bleeding in the first 3 months of your pregnancy. Any bleeding during the second and third trimesters is abnormal. Bleeding from the vagina after the 28th week of pregnancy is a true emergency. The bleeding can range from very mild to extremely brisk and may or may not be accompanied by abdominal pain. Hemorrhage (another word for bleeding) is the most common cause of death of the mother in the United States. It complicates about 4% of all pregnancies.
In early pregnancy (first trimester) a small amount of bleeding can be common and not particularly harmful. As long as you are not having a miscarriage a small amount of bleeding can be tolerated. It is always necessary for your care provider to know about any bleeding during your pregnancy. Bleeding in early pregnancy can mean a variety of things, but most often it is a warning flag for your care provider to be aware of possible complications that could arise later during your pregnancy. The most life-threatening bleeding occurs later in pregnancy, usually after twenty-four weeks and then immediately following delivery. Placentia previa and placental abruption (abruptio placentae) are two common disorders that can cause a mother to hemorrhage during her pregnancy.

Answer 8

go to the doc asap..if you are four months pregnant and HAVENT been going to the doc for whatever reason..that wasnt smart...if you are bleeding really bad...go to the ER..yes it could be a miscarriage which could be dangerous if not taken care of in the proper way..or it could be something else meaning you can still save your baby if you get checked out..

Answer 9

yes it sounds like u are im not trying to be nasty or eney thing but have u seen small little cloughts when u got the bath room or even if u are bleeding ALOT u probally are having a misscarrig! YOU SHOULD GO TO THR DOCTER RIGHT NOW !!!

Answer 10

4 days ago you were almost 3 months? anyway.. if you are bleeding a "LOT" as you say you really need to get to a doctor , make sure you arent hemmorhaging. and if you are having a miscarraige this late into pgcy, you will most likely need a D&C (in other words, they have to scrape out the contents of your uterus).