my gf is 5 months pregnant with twins
her parents threw her out and now she is sleeping in the car
i have a small studio with a twin bed and sofa
barely big enough for me i also have 2 dogs which dont like her and they occupied the sofa
i dont know if i should let her stay with me
but i confuse cuz i dont want to inconvenece my dogs
they will fight all the time
what should i do
2006-10-04 09:41:56 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
get rid of the dogs and get a bigger bed.
2006-10-04 09:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyedprincess 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First off, I'm assuming these are your soon to be children. If that's the case, then maybe you should reconsider living with your dogs and having your girlfriend move in. If your dogs don't get a long with your girlfriend, do you expect them to get a long with your children? Probably not. You should ask yourself what is more important, the well being of the mother of my children or the well being of my dogs? The answer is simple. Can your dogs stay with any other family members? Like it or not, your priorities are with your girlfriend now and it's an inconvenience for her to sleep in a car. Even if they aren't your children, it's your girlfriend sleeping in a car. She must be thinking your crazy not do do anything about it. How much do you love her?
2006-10-04 09:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Rogodogo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Put your big boy underwear on and deal with this! Have your girlfriend move in with you immediately. A dog is a dog. You are taking in a girlfriend, and two fetuses. Your fetuses! Start saving money, and if the dogs become a problem, find them a new home. Your about to be a parent. It's a tremendous responsibility, and all of your selfishness must stop now before they arrive into this world.
2006-10-04 09:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can not believe that you would even consider letting your poor dog sleep somewhere other than your apartment. Remember dogs are a man's best friend. Besides it's just your girlfriend and your twin babies sleeping in the car, how important can that be.
I can not believe that you even asked this question. Take her to a shelter, where she can get medical treatment and hopefully find a father for her babies. Maybe someone with some balls to take care of her.
2006-10-04 09:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by loser 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself who's more important the dogs or you kids? I think you should let the dogs sleep in the car and your girl friend in the house. Would you want to sleep in a car? It's normal for a dog to sleep outside but not your girlfriend who 5 moths pregnant with twins. Think about it.
2006-10-04 09:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should put your head on straight and find someone to watch those dogs and take care of your girl. What kind of boyfriend are you to let your pg girl sleep in her car when she is with child. WOW...what did you your mama teach you. You also need to think about moving out and getting another place because with twins you will need more room. AND for Godsake man...WEAR A RUBBER next time. You obviously do not have the training to become a dad...lets not have to go thru this again.
2006-10-04 09:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by LuLu G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, did you just say you didnt' want to inconvenience your DOGS!!! You are an idiot! Your girlfriend is pregnant with twins and you're more concerned about your dogs and than your children? She should leave you and make you pay child support. Get rid of the damn dogs and stand up and be a man and a father, you helped her get into this position it's about time you do something about it.
2006-10-04 09:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by justwondering 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you love her, and it sounds like you do i would get rid of the dogs or find somewhere else for the dogs. This is a human being were talking about and she is carrying your children. This is a decision that can only be made by you but, be a man and step up. You wont regret it!
2006-10-04 09:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by LaniChelle 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both are improtant but maybe u should be the one sleeping in the car cuz she is pregnant with your child and she needs comfort. I know your dogs are important but think about your child. That is human baby that is innocent and pure. Her and the baby needs or home or maybe she can try and get her a new bf that would take care of her and her baby
2006-10-05 10:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your girlfriend should find a new boyfriend. Better yet, I like the idea that YOU SHOULD SLEEP IN HER CAR WITH YOUR TWO DOGS and she should get your apartment. This is a top-notch idea and solves all the problems!!! Bravo!
As for you, you are more worried about "inconveniencing" your dogs (which you can't even spell) than about your two unborn children and your girlfriend! You really should be ashamed of yourself. This is one of the most sickening messages I have read on Yahoo.
2006-10-04 09:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by EmLa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, guys like you are ignorant or something, cuz you got a girlfriend and she is pregnant with your twins, but you let her sleep in a car. huh? doesn't sound rite to me. you really don't want to inconvenience your DOGS cuz they sleep on the couch!!!!! well how did you make them babies in they first place without bothering your dogs? what you need to do is to tell your dogs goodbye for now and concentrate on your new family. plus how the heck would they fight all the time?
go to a counselor and get your priorities straight! and if you don't, tell your girlfriend to move on to someone better if you decide to choose your dogs over her and your 2 babies!
2006-10-04 09:49:54 · answer #11 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋