2006-10-04 09:12:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A court order?
2006-10-04 09:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mariko 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh trust me he knows he needs to pay he just doesn;t give a damn. I'm having the same issue with both my babies daddies. The F'ing losers. The most you can do is make sure he is in the child support system in which a weekly amount is being added to what he owes you. I at least have an amount being added weekly for both of these losers...it is all you can do. This year I received one of the dads $1400 tax returns (who hoo) Some day some way ALL the deadbeats of the world will pay.
2006-10-04 16:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. Go after him!!
You need to go to family court and they will make sure that he pays up. I went through this back in the 70's, when things were much different. Their father never paid child support, and we were constantly running back and fourth to family court. They would scold him, tell him to pay up, and each time he would send one or two checks, then stop. After a while, it became to expensive for me to keep taking off from work so I just said the heck with it, and I took care of my three girls myself. Now, there are all kinds of new laws, and he has to pay for his children. Honey, you go to family court - these kids deserve it. Good luck to you and please let me know how you make out.
2006-10-04 16:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of them don't care to understand. You need to get a court order and save your breath.... If you already have an order, petition the family court for a hearing.....for lack of support.
You can't get blood out of a stone, as they say...but when you bring the law into it...it is surprising how things can happen.
Some guys just don't care.. as long as they have the comforts that they need ... The children are unfortunately always last on the list..
Quit waiting for him to make the move.... take charge and file for a hearing today....
2006-10-04 16:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's a real loser, he won't understand it at all. If he's one of these fathers that feels it's YOU he is taking care of, and doesn't think the money is going towars the kids, he won't pay.
You can only hope your court system will help you.
It's not right for the kids to go without. But under no circumstances, don't talk about it in front of the children. They can't do a thing about it, and it shouldn't be their problem.
2006-10-04 16:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with post above ... let the Dept of Children & Families, Social Services, Child Support Office convey the message! Most states have sever consequences for non-payment of support. (loss of driving priveledge, jail, etc) Perhaps these consequences would make it more appealing for him to pay up!!
2006-10-04 16:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Toots 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is file a notice of motion,and have the court in your district track his employer through his SS number.Very simple,and plain to do.His Social Security number tells the whole story.You can get advice,and free legal help@WWW.Prairiestatelegalservices.com.Hope this will help!
2006-10-04 16:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Court procedures..see a lawyer or legal aid counselor. Use whatever legal means you can access. You need to do this for the sake of your children.
2006-10-04 16:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Elizabethfrny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point there is nothing you need to say The courts and some jail time will get teh message across.
2006-10-04 16:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey YOU don't have to waste a single breath trying to make him understand a darn thing. If he is so irresponsible that he doesnt know what he should be doing, then the state that you live in will be more than happy to explain it to him.
2006-10-04 16:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by eagfan5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋