I am 13 weeks pregnant and everything is just going so wrong. My hubby joined the military and we did our first move to his station, and if anyone is familiar we did a DITY move which it comes out of pocket first and they pay you back, well... It has been 3 or 4 months, and we still have not seen a dime. This has put us so far into debt you cannot imagine. And today, just everything is seeming to go wrong. I have a 2 year old, who, during my nap he took it upon himself to get the dishwasher liquid, garlic powder, pepper, salt and a half full soda can and spread it around the whole house. I am the only one here, and I just looked at our account and again, no reimbursement and there is little food in the house. I would calll someone and speak to someone more personal, but I am unable to pay my phone bill at the moment... I am stressed about my pregnancy for different reasons...i have a lot of risk factors, and this just is not helping... I just do not know what to do anymore..
2006-10-04 09:07:47 · 10 answers · asked by distortdthoughts 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Im sorry you have to go through that but you have to relax that cant be good for you , things will get better in no time you'll see. try to watch tv or read a book or go to the park, just focus on something else, If you want to talk you can email me
2006-10-04 09:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by audrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, take a deep breath & relax. You shouldn't be all stressed out when you're pregnant. Make your husband follow up with the reimbursment. Is there any family that you could borrow some money from, temporarily, so you can get some groceries? I know it seems hopeless, but it's not the end of the world. Try & focus on the good things you have & prioritize the rest of your life after that. Try splitting more of the responsibilities with your husband & next time, put your two yr. old in his crib or bed during your naptime so he won't make a mess.
2006-10-04 16:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by jamieinreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say as hard as it seems just relax. For little ones sake (both) Don't you have a social service or someone around to help get you food? I understand being tight on money ( i myslef am preggy (28 weeks) and going through the same thing) Just stay positive as hard as it is and look for all the possiblities of help around your area, food banks, some phone companies offer low payment for people on assistance. Good luck I hope all gets better.
2006-10-04 16:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ash1227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would be kicking some military *** asking about where my money is. And I know what it's like to be in your shoes, my sister has a baby and she's never home to take care of him so he's pretty much mine. He's a little over 2 years old and he tears up EVERYTHING!!!! I know you're stressed but say a little prayer and maybe God will help you. I hope you have better luck in the future :)
2006-10-04 16:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, you have a right to be stressed....your moving alot and your husband could be sent over seas and your planning for a baby! here's my advice that actually works cause i m like one of the most stressed out people>>
get a journal and write in it everyday. or get on your computer and type down everything about your day and then save it and continue doin this everyday. i do both. its kind of like a free tharapist>>
great luck! keep a positive attitude and as corny as it sounds it will work>>
also see if a neighborhood girl would be willing to help you out w/ cleaning and watching your 2 yearold. dont worry God will help you.pray pray pray>> nad i ll pray for you!
2006-10-04 16:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off...chill...put your little one for a nap...after you clean up the mess he made...go somewhere where you can relax...breathe in breathe out...stress IS NOT good for you or your baby...if you can contact your husband call him or wait til he comes home or whatever and tell him how worried you are.....being the man can comfort you or take the reins and go and figure out where your money is...remember even tho it doesnt seem like it right now..it could always be worse...and god wont ever put anything on your plate that you cant handle...I know that doesnt make you feel any better...but it is the truth..god bless.
2006-10-04 16:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be able to get some help from your church. Your husband definitely needs to talk to someone. And doesn't the military have people to help you with this kind of thing? Like case workers or something?
2006-10-04 16:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by MornGloryHM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know who you would call but wanted to say that I will pray for you and your family. God will take care of you I promise.
2006-10-04 16:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by eask 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to hear that that has happend. Have you or hubby talked to someoe about it because that in't right?
2006-10-04 16:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by princess_aja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i mean this is a serious issue! just think positive and everything will work out find, don't give up, don't let that devil get you down!!!!
2006-10-04 16:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by Laugh Now Cry Later 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋