im pregnant and i told my bf about it and he just dosent seem to want to have sex with me any more i dont know what to do i just dont want him to lose intrest in me altogeather. how can i peak his intreset again?
2006-10-04 09:04:07 · 7 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have talked to him about it and i can tell that he is happy about the pregnancy and he says that heis not loseing intrest but i feel like he is iono what to do.
2006-10-04 15:11:54 · update #1
No, you're not wrong to want to continue to have sex. Have you talked to him about it? Why does he feel this way? Does he think it would hurt the baby, or maybe the idea is just strange to him. Or, is it something deeper... is he happy with the pregnancy? Look up info on the internet about pregnancy and sex, and then try to share it with him. This will open the door to a converstion about his thoughts and feelings on the subject, and yours as well.
2006-10-04 09:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by wendy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He fears the unknown about you being pregnant. Let him know that it is perfectly okay for you two to still have sex and that it will not hurt the baby. I am sure it is just that he fears something like that will happen.
2006-10-04 09:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is too late to talk about protection It is both your responsibilities to take care of this...... I think he is punishing you for getting pregnant...go figure........I guess he didn't expect it to happen..... he sounds very immature and if you can get to a free clinic , do it and getsome counselling..... If he is backing away from you now, what do you think he will do when the baby arrives. You will be yesterdays news girl... wake up and smell the roses......
2006-10-04 09:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with him, be open and honest, and ask him what he thinks about your pregnancy. Tell him you feel he is not interested ask him why he's not. Then go from there and figure out how he is going to help with the baby.
2006-10-04 09:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME MEN FEAR IF THEY TRY TO HAVE SEX WITH THEIR GF WHILE THEY ARE PREGNANT IT WILL HARM THE BABY. WHY DON'T THE TWO OF YOU GO TO A DOCTOR TOGETHER AND GET CONFIRMATION FROM HE OR SHE THATS ITS OK TO HAVE SEX IF NOT THERE ARE ALOT OF THINGS YOU TWO COULD DO THAT'LL BE PRETTY INTERESTING WHILE YOUR PREGNANT.
2006-10-04 09:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Randisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men are not comfortable with sex during this time. just leave him be and maybe he will come around.
2006-10-04 09:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was not ready? or he may be in shock , have you talked to he about it . you have to let him know how you feel. good luck and congratulations
2006-10-04 09:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by missi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋