2006-10-04 08:46:52 · 25 answers · asked by juanitamperry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You've fallen in love with an "elf"? What the F**k?
2006-10-04 08:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all make sure that you are really in love with the other person before you end a 15 year relationship. Sometimes when you are in a relationship a long time, you start to get bored with the other person so you find yourself thinking more about somebody else. Are you sure that you are really in love with your new interest? Do you really know that person well enough to know?
If you are sure you want to end it, then the only thing you can do is tell the person. It is probably going to be painful no matter what, but I think being straightforward and honest is the best thing to do.
2006-10-04 15:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by engineergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them apparently you were not inlove with the person you were with for 15 years, and now you can stop wasting time like you have been doing and move on to be with the person you are inlove with. plus learn how to spell it may work out better for you in life. much love but GOD LOVES YOU BEST.
2006-10-04 16:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by O.E.S. Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have never been in love with an elf,, kissing might be hard unless you are short, and the sex part, dont think i could get into it, but hey if it makes you happy,but if you are married then i would say get counseling,, for the cheating and the elf thing
2006-10-04 15:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be forthright! Stop and think how you would want to be told this.........is there any easy way?
Once your feelings have stopped, it's not fair to the other one involved to be the last to know. If your sure of this, be the good person you are, and let the one you no longer love, know.
Not so sure you have to say your in love with someone else right away, but let them know you no longer love them.
2006-10-04 15:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no logic way you just have to come out with it sit him down and try and explain it. Just make sure your by the door and guard your eyes just in case he tries to two piece you. This is really going to hurt him.15yrs. is a long time invested. But it's best that you tell him and just deal with whatever the outcome is. Good Luck
2006-10-04 15:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell this person the truth, and the sooner the better. He will be hurt, but better he finds out from you than someone else. I know how it feels, because it happened to me - and I had to find out from someone else. Seems like everyone else knew about it except me. After a while, the hurt goes away and you move on with your life. So please - tell this person before he finds out from someone else. And you will feel better too.
2006-10-04 15:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nike said it best "JUST DO IT" who are you helping by not telling him you love an elf.
2006-10-04 15:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Carl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a Keebler elf you're in love with?
2006-10-04 15:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like that huh? I scan the papers for the results when you drop this one on him. Ought to be real good press.
2006-10-04 15:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋