This is my first year in high school and in a new distrect i have a no one is hurting or making fun of me except for this one kid. He is my highet but he is stronger then me he plays football but i can run faster then him ( i didnt play any sports this year). Well he started messing with me 3wks ago and left me alone untill today he kept making fun of me and me only for no reason i didnt do anything to him he just wanted i told him i would kick his a$s and he said lets fight i said ok and we decided to do it after class in the bathroom. we went thier he punched me first i punched him back we did this back and forth really hurting each other untill he picked me up and slammed me on the ground i got up shook his hand and walked away though their is two problems the first is word is spreeading slow but it is still spreading and second i am really hurt , i have big lump on the side of my head and it hurts when i walk and sit though i dont wanna tell or rat because ill get suspended.
2006-10-04 08:39:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I congratulate both of you on shaking hands after the fight, hopefully the picking on is over.
As for the word spreading that can be a problem if it gets to the principal or security. It would of been best if you would of done it off premises.
About the lump on your head I would suggest you see the doctor after school. Tell your parents what happen and how you solve the situation. I am sure they will not have a problem with the way you handled it. I, as a parent wouldn't with the exception of it being on school premises, but that can be handled with the school.
2006-10-04 08:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by ???///??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to rat to get help bro, go to the hospital and make sure you are OK!! If you hit your head wrong when you fell, there could be some serious damage in there, especially if you are feeling funny. Just tell the doctor you fell on your bike or something.
As far as the "word" spreading about the fight, you stood up for yourself, and should be proud!! I undertsand that you are afraid that everyone will say you lost, but there are two problems with this: 1) nobody ever wins a fight, and 2) at least you stood up for yourself, which is more than most kids your age would do.
Anyone who has somehting to say to you, all you have to say back is "at least I did something". As far as the fight, if you feel like you lost, then try again; quitters never win!
:)
2006-10-04 08:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't mind telling you that what you did was really stupid. He was a jerk and instead of fighting him, you should have reported him. It's your choice whether or not you get suspended. Hold your head high in school no matter what anyone says and alternate ice and heat on that head. If it doesn't clear up in a day or 2 then you need to see a doctor. You might have had a minor concussion. Good luck!
2006-10-04 08:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First why would you fight in a bathrom, thats weird. When you get in a fight you need to do it where there are people as a safegaurd and to build support. Second there is no need to tell to get help with your injuries, ice should be sufficent and if not you can lie. Word spreading of your fight is a good thing, It makes you a personality which you should eventually be able to exploit through exaggerations of your tale.
2006-10-04 08:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by dave y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you challenged him to a fight, expect the consequences.
However, if you hadnt challenged him to a fight, a cool thing to do would be to explode verbally.
*loud voices*
"honestly, what is your problem with making fun of me. Does making another person uncomfortable make you happy? cuz if it does, then it is really sad. Just stop talking because your voice hurts my head."
Get up and sit somewhere else. Even if you get in trouble, you had good reason.
That'll embarress him and even if he doesnt find it embarressing, everyone else will think he is a dick. They pick on the weak knowing you wont respond in anyway. show them wrong.
2006-10-04 08:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm prolly not gonna be much help, but here goes.
i'm a girl so i dont know a/b the thing where the guy is picking on you, all though i do know one thing, and that is everyone gets made fun of somehow, by someone, anyhow, i wouldnt advise you to tell someone that would eventually get this guy into trouble, cause he'll come after you again and the outcome will be worse. but tell someone who can help with your injuries, other than that avoid him, as much as possible. and be faster, i know you are you said you were but try being even faster, he wont get you then..
good luck!
2006-10-04 08:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I easily have a youthful sister and an older brother. i have been in a lot of tangible fights which i'm satisfied for because it really is made me demanding. outdoors that, i have been in 4-5 actual fights in college. a pair with females, some thing with adult adult males.
2016-11-26 02:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let me see. Since he started picking on you for no reason.....I suggest telling your parents, taking pics of your injuries and then charging him with assault. That will teach him for bullying. I know you don't want to rat him out and I know it's not completely cool. But he's just going to turn around and do it to the next person he finds to pick on. So teach him a lesson.
2006-10-04 08:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by sammytoes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better see a doctor. If you hit your head on the floor the wrong way you could have a concussion or some other type of problem. it's nothing to play around with.
2006-10-04 08:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor. Tell him you fell down while skateboarding and bonked your head/side. Done deal.
Be glad you stood up to the bully. Chances are, your hits hurt him too. He will respect you for it. If not, hit him harder next time. WHatever you do, don't back down. If you do, he will see it as a sign of weakness and tease you forever.
2006-10-04 08:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋