My GF, who has pleaded & wept to me, saying that she is in love with me & and wants to be with me & always has, had developed feelings for a coworker who had feelings for her. After breaking up & getting back together, she says that she still has feelings for him but is going to dinner with him tonight to tell him that we are together and to tell him how she feels about him. They have been friends for almost a year now, the same amount of time that we've been together. I love her with all of my heart but I'm tired of getting hurt. Now I feel scared that something may happen by her telling him all of this. Am I justified for feeling this way? She told me she would do whatever it takes to make things right and better between us; how is this making things better? What is she doing? Why is she doing all of this? How can you be in love with someone and develop feelings for someone else? I'm so hurt & at the end of my rope...literally.
2006-10-04 08:28:22 · 4 answers · asked by coolguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have every right to feel the way you do....
In my opinion, this woman doesn't really love you.. She possibly can't, if she has feelings for someone else... If it is over between them, she shouldn't still be keeping in touch with him... Also, whatever she has to say to him, she can tell him on the phone.. She is trying to have her cake and eat it too..
Life is too short to settle for anything less.... It's time to move on.. Sometimes we have to go through bad seeds to find the right one... Someone who will love you and only you and treat you as you deserve....
When you least expect it; it will happen.....
Good luck and God Bless!
2006-10-04 08:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Torres 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me U are justified in the way U feel, It sounds like she had to go out with him to tell him the way she feels hoping he would tell her that he cares for her too. Sorry but U need to let her go and find someone who loves U and only U.
2006-10-04 17:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y does she have2go 2 dinner wid him2tell him ol this?U cant have feelings 4 2 pple!Dunno wat2make of ol this.Go wid ur gut feelings n good luck.
2006-10-04 08:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, why in the world would she need to go to dinner to tell him this ?? Doesn't she own a phone ? Drop this girl. She's just not that into you.
2006-10-04 08:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋