is it bad or wierd that i am not turned on by sex anymore that it is very hard to have an orgasam but that the only way to obtain one is to have anal sex which i have never had and when i did i enjoyed it alot is this normal or am i sick, I am about 25.2 weeks pregnanty, please help i am serious here
2006-10-04 08:27:57 · 11 answers · asked by liz_bonilla2000 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I don't think your wierd, just make sure you take precautions,(condom's, make sure he keeps himself clean). you don't want to get a UTI.....
other than that......whatever gets you thru the night.......
2006-10-04 08:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by tg315 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is nothing sick about enjoying anal sex. Second of all, it is very normal when you are pregnant to experience a decrease in your sex drive and to have difficulty acheiving orgasm. This is caused by fluctuating hormone levels. Don't expect things to go back to normal immediately after you give birth either. It will take a while for your hormones to stabilize, especially if you choose to breastfeed. Not to mention, the lack of sleep is enough to turn anyone off of sex.
2006-10-04 08:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by pritti_dayzee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wierd or sick. Some women claim that they can only have orgasms from anal sex. There are many reasons why you might not want sex right now and most of them are do to hormone and body changes. Just do what feels right to you and hopefully your partner won't complain too much :)
2006-10-04 08:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by redzodd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's normal...for me, at first it was the other way around (I had the best pregnant orgasms in the first few months of being pregnant)...but now, I honestly don't want sex anymore! And I used to be ALL over my fiance before I was pregnant!! It's just your hormones kicking in. As for the anal sex, maybe it just feels better right now, or you feel like you aren't going to harm the baby that way. But don't worry, you aren't sick...there are plenty of women who like that!
2006-10-04 08:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found a decrease in my desire with my first prego and few orgasms, and when I did orgasm I didn't like it cause my tummy would get tight and feel crampy. And I didn't like the feel of the baby moving so far up into my ribs during sex. As for anal-no way
2006-10-04 08:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pregnancy hormones mess with your sex drive. Some pregnant women wants sex all the time, some don't want anything to do with it. As for you, it sounds a bit strange, but probably normal.
2006-10-04 08:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first pregnancy, I wanted it ALL the time .. seriously, 4, 5 times a day (after I was taken off bed rest at 3 months) .. I actually started feeling bad for my partner LOL .. this time around, not so much, I am 4 weeks, and so far I don't want it at all.
2006-10-04 08:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Island_Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta wait tell you have the babie then ask this question. plus you shouldn't be have sex after 6 months of being pregnant
2006-10-04 08:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by samlha83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each to there own. i always thought anal sex was for gay men cause women have the right parts.
2006-10-04 08:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by di05712 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its normal your body is a hormonal battle field. It will change and morph in different ways. your not weird.
2006-10-04 08:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋