He goes outside or in the bathroom when she calls, or if he is at work when she calls, he deletes it so i cant see it. He never tells me what is going on or what is said. Today i found a picture of him and her in his pick-up. what do i do? Things have been a little rocky here lately.........only been married for 2 and half months and i have been sleeping on the couch for three weeks. There is no sex cause he is always tired or just has no excuse. what is the problem.
2006-10-04 08:25:34 · 13 answers · asked by marriedonlyamonth&wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly it sounds like he is still involved with her. You knew that though... maybe you don't want to face it but unless he gets honest real fast... the marriage may be done for.
2006-10-04 08:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by That's my final answer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you, he seems like he's cheating and you might wanna get the marriage annuled. But first you should sit him down and talk to him and tell him you are his wife and he should not be talking to her in the bathroom or outside..What does he have to hide? ask him that. What does he not want you to know that he is telling her. More than likely he's trying to get her back or he's already sleeping with her again. Good Luck. Pray about it, maybe he just feels uncomfortable talking to her around you??
2006-10-04 08:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult men isn't the considerable be conscious Black adult men is the considerable be conscious they are divorced so he has no say so in her own life. sounds to me your husband does have a difficulty with black human beings. he in simple terms would not prefer his daughter growing to be up having a a million/2 black toddler so do not blame the ex- spouse blame your black race hating husband if he fill its this way of great difficulty then record for custody and shield her from all different races yet her very own race curiously your husband is or became into lacking some thing because of the fact if he wasn't they might nonetheless be married or she could not stand being married to a racist p.s. as quickly as you had black you will not circulate back ( according to probability you prefer slightly shade on your life to open your eyes.)
2016-10-15 12:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better talk to him, tell him (if it is okay with you) that talking and meeting his ex-wife is fine with you, you can't change the past and she will always be a part of your husband's life ight as well make her a part of yours.
If he gets too irritated if you ask him, then i think you have to think things over...i know it is only 2 and a half months but would you still lengthen your pain?
2006-10-04 08:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by firedragon_luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. I hate to be blunt with you, but I would be worried. Does he have kids with the ex? Is his communication with her related to that? A dog? ...something other than just the two of them... Find out..
If there's nothing...sit him down calmly..explain how you feel..and ask him to put himself in your shoes..and ask him what that would make him think and feel? And then ask if you think that is fair? Then ... from there you'll know the answer.
All you can expect in a relationship is honesty & communication.. the rest is stuff you choose to deal or not deal with.. if the honesty and/or the communication is not there... you have problems!
Good luck to you
2006-10-04 08:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by RUNINTLKT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RED FLAGS. You should be a little suspicious. Especially if he is hiding phone calls, what more is there. Men are basically slimey liars. Look into it get all the fact, then make the right decision for yourself. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-04 08:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would leave his *** because it sound like he cheating on you. and what hell is he doing talking to his ex. he marry to you and he need to respect you and your marriage. why are you sleeping on the couch. why doesn't he sleep on the couch with you or he can sleep alone on the couch. but i would say don't up with his bullshit girl. put your foot down and tell him if he doesn't stop talking to his ex then you are out of there. because if he love you like he said. he would respect his vows. for better or worst and you guys need to work on your marriage. if he doesn't then there is no need to stay with an *** like that. there are other guys out there would love to be with you. so good luck and remember what i said and put your foot down.
2006-10-04 08:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for dilema, unfortunately it sounds like the honeymoon is over and he is having a change of heart. I would suggest you just ask him whatever it is you are concerned about. Dont accept this behavior from him, you deserve much better. Good luck.
2006-10-04 08:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but i think your are being cheated on or he is looking for a friendly person to talk to about what going on in your relationship between you and him and he might be talk to his x to help he get throw it.. but if i where you talk to him by up front and tell him that you and him need to work it out and keep the x out of it . and if he wont's to fix his marriage to you.. good luck.
2006-10-04 08:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is no marriage for the 2 of you. It also sounds like he's still in love with her, or she's the type of woman, and there is that group of them, that think they can rid of them but continue to keep their claws in their ex's.
Honey, get out!! Leave him or kick his *** to the curb. Let him hightail it back to her. Sounds like they deserve each other. You can do better than this!!
2006-10-04 08:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋