what would u do if u were sacrificing everything uv ever known for ur mom's happiness?

Question

im leaving my home-town of 9 yrs to live in a entirely diff. state because my dad went physcho. he tracks everything my mom does, he has techno bugs that he uses to listen to her and he gives her death threats and says that if she ever leaves him, those threats wont be threats at all but a promise. she has to get out cause she cant breathe. she has health porbs when shes around him, and she hates him. he hates her but hes obsessed and cant let go. as soon as he finds out we r leaving him, he is going to shoot my mom and shoot me cause he told my mom that me a my three brothers were bastard children because my mom wasnt ever in love with him, and that she was a whore from the start. my mom is a great person. i have no reason to want to stay in my home town, but im afraid to let go cause i still love my dad and i have a friend that lives in my home town to and ill miss her. how can i cope while keeping my mom alive and my brothers happy, they love my dad too?

Answer 1

Your dad has lost his marbles - CALL THE POLICE, NOW.

Your dad has committed several crimes already by threatening you and your mom with PREMEDITATED MURDER. don't let any of those threats become true.

If calling from home isn't safe, please do so from school after telling your counselor and principal - but in any case, do it soon!

Answer 2

Oh sweety, I hate seeing things like this on here! Of course you love your father, but he is a sick man.
I hope your mom is strong enough to leave. And I hope she's smart enough to be going to a state he won't even think of! If your dad is this dangerous, I'd for sure make sure your mom informs the local athorities when she gets you all to a safe place. Keep any proof of his threats. I'm not sure a restraining order would be good for her to get, because it would have to let him know her where abouts. and yours!

You may have a friend there you'll miss sweety, but you'll make new friends. I hope your mom can get healthier so you don't have to carry the burden of protecting her, she should be protecting you!

Good Luck, and please be safe!!

Answer 3

Your Father is not a healthy man. He's made death threats to you and your family. Why would you want to stay where he is? I'd be thankful your Mom is trying to make a change and get away, so you have a chance for a more normal life. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

You are not responsible for the actions of your parents. Get out of this dysfunctional situation now. You cannot solve their issues. You mother needs to get the strength to have your father STOPPED in his tracks with his manipulating, bullying and threatening behaviour. Does he do this when he is full of grog? She needs to report him to the police and tell them she fears for her life.
Your father needs to accept the marriage is over and to get on with his life and to leave your mum alone.
Of course you love ya dad. But he needs some counselling real bad as does your mum too.
She needs to get into a shelter some where. Think of her future and get the hell out of the town and start a new life, even if she has to change her name to do it and move away. If your brother's remain in this situation and witness this constant crap, they may end up gettnig some of the Dad's despicable traits and go onto to treat their own girlfriends/partners like this in the future.

This situation is Domestic Violence and it is punishable in a court of law.

Your mother is also responsible for the welfare of the children, so she needs to take control and do it now.

Can you tell her this? If not speak to a relative or someone that can help get her NOW to make a decision about what she needs to do.

You get out, not your problem.

Answer 5

When someone says that they will kill you...50% of the time they are serious. You should call the police and get someone assigned to your case and get proof the your father ain't quite right. You can love your dad, but he and your mom needs help before someone get hurt fo real. No one deserves to live in fear, there is to much to life to miss it all due to the insane threats of someone that need professional help. Contact someone who will listen and do something to help. Your life will be so much better for it. Good luck..

Answer 6

You are not really sacrificing for your Mom's happiness. You are getting yourself into a safe situation. Your dad seems to be a little schizophrenic. It sounds like he needs on medication. He will probably make good on his threats. Do what it takes to be safe. Take care of yourself and tell an adult if you are fearful.

Answer 7

WOW, that is a lot to have to deal with. You are not responsible for keeping anyone happy. However, it sounds like for your own safety and the safety of your family you are going to have to leave. Try to look at it like an adventure, a new chapter in your life. You never know what good things may come to you in this new place!

Answer 8

You need a counselor to help you sort through this. This is wayyyy too complicated for Yahoo. First, why do you profess love for someone who so obviously doesn't care for you the way he should? Second, you shouldn't have to take care of everyone; that's your mom and dad's job. You need outside help!

Answer 9

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Answer 10

you should tell someone no one should go through that every one needs help. also go with your mom. send your friend emails, letters, and pictures if you guys r true friends you will be together in the future. good luck!!!!!!!!!fallow your heart no madder what!!!!