i can't get her pregnant last week i kumed in her at least 12 times and she's not pregnant and i am scaird cuz i am think that i can't have kids. do you think cuz we're 16 and not fully developed ???
plz dont be stupid and tell me why are you try to get her pregnant . duhhh for a baby . we want a baby
2006-10-04 08:17:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
thanks very much who is telling for college but just to let you know i already have a certificate of graphic designer .
2006-10-04 08:43:21 · update #1
go to the doctor
they will surely see if it is something about you or the lucky girl
good luck with the baby!
2006-10-04 15:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tammi =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... ok..... wow! well um....... You think maybe you want to stay in school a little while longer before thinking about a baby? At least graduate, did you know that with out at least a diploma there will be no job for you? And without a job the baby wont eat or be clothed unless he or she is adopted by someone who can provide? I know .. I know .. I don't know anything about you right? wrong! I know that you are a "boy" whom is sixteen, that has a "girlfriend" whom is young too. That haven't completed school yet, and by your spelling ....... sweet heart you need to complete school! Having a baby is not all peaches and cream that you may see people with " careers" or on welfare make it seem to be.But guess what? Welfare is about to do a magic trick and disappear! You don't just need money to take care of a child, you have to gain some knowledge so that you can teach your child, but hey you can't be blamed for not knowing. I apologize if I got you in your feelings, but to hear such a young man as yourself talk about bringing another baby in this world hurts my feelings. I can't even imagine how you and the mother could support the baby, and a child needs both parents with a career and a strong mind ( no offense). But GOD BLESS you both, and a baby isn't the only thing you and your girlfriend can catch! Wrap It Up!
2006-10-04 08:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Trena G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You posted this because YOU (you and your gf) want a baby....
It's not like a baby is a commodity or a new toy. This post alone reflects on your maturity level. It's immature and selfish to try to bring a human being into the world when you are lacking the intelligence to even care for a baby and raise it to be an asset to society. Do you have your own residence? A reliable vehicle? A stable job making AT LEAST $45K? Health Insurance?
Or do you plan on the government supporting the baby?
2006-10-04 09:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by SatinDoll1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop trying to her pregnant and worrying about getting a high school education, some college and getting your life together before bringing a child into this world.
You need to have a job (not to fast food either), your own car, some medical insurance to pay for the prenatal care that your GF is going to need while being pregnant since you want a baby not need one, then you need medical insurance to pay for the baby's care till he or she turns 18 and grown. You need your own house to take care of your GF and baby.
You both do not want a baby, you just think you do because you are both young and do not know any better.
What you should do is keep it in your pants till you become a grown man with some benefits (car, money, insurance and a house)
2006-10-04 08:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to answer your questions most pregancies are unsuccessful because of planning if you leave it up to me. I am no doctor but a few of my frieinds tried to just lay and bust~ NOPE~ If you are thinking of making a baby then it will not work. I think baby-making comes from real love and not the pressuresw of trying to conceive~ So, hmm all I can say is this AGE is a number I just hope you have a JOB~ Cause kids cost and I hope both of you are out of school. Cause most chicks say they can go to school during and while they are pregnant and they be the main ones to stop going on just because they get tired of walking to class or sitting for long periods of time or the bathroom breaks more frequently~ So all I can say is this once again, do not think about it and just do it. U need to sike out the mind so that you will not give off tension~ Instead of nutt. Cause you must be shooting blanks now~ But like I said no issue just do not try to plan it. and one more thing is she ovulatiing? U need to try a week before
2006-10-04 08:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number one, stop trying. You are too young and clearly too ignorant to be reproducing at this point in your life. Regardless of how many times you had unprotected sex *last week* she would NOT be pregnant yet. It takes a 6-12 days for a fertilized egg to implant in the uterine lining and for the female to begin producing the pregnancy hormone. Before that, she is not medically pregnant and will not get a positive pregnancy test. Since neither of you knew this basic fact of reproduction, perhaps you should delay trying to have a baby until you're not one yourselves. Finish your education first and establish a career... how else to you plan on supporting a child?!?
2006-10-04 08:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to these people on yahoo! It's you and your girlfriend and you know how you too feel and you too know how much you love each other no one else understands but ya two. Well ithink that you should get a sperm count . Like go to a doctor and ask fro a sperm count and get it done in a lab.Oh yeah and has your gf been on birth control because if she has she has to wait at least 8 months to 1 year to have a baby because of all the hormones. Or you can also try to get her to a doctor so the doctor can check her out. But whatever you do good luck and take care of each other
2006-10-04 08:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It might not be that you can't get her pregnant, it might have been that your timing was off. Women are most fertile during ovulation which usually occurs about two weeks after their period and lasts from three to seven days. It also could be that you had sex too often. It's usually best to have sex every other day while trying to concieve as this allows for a higher concentration of sperm.
2006-10-04 08:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by pritti_dayzee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R 16 it's nature way of telling you that ur to young.
If in a few years (like 5) you still want to try and can't then you both should be tested.
2006-10-04 09:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by ellc123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur'll are sweet 16. Stop being nuts and trying to get her pregnant. First complete your education, then marry her and then get her pregnant. Atleast after marriage and a good education ur'll can take care of ur wife n child better.
2006-10-04 10:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sandmax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure u are fine. most ppl dont get pregnant when only trying for one month. a girl can only get pregnant when she is ovulating which happens once a month. you have to have sex then. i know you think you wanna have a baby now, but you should wait. your only 16! dont you wanna have some fun with your life befor youre strapped down raising a child?
2006-10-04 11:10:17 · answer #11 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋