My best friend is cheating on his wife. His wife caught him chatting online with another woman & said that it was me with a different screen name. His wife said that he said that we were just role playing an affair (that sounds gay!) but I set her straight that it wasn't me. I have been friends with him for half my life (well, 2 months before my 18th birthday). What should I do?
2006-10-04 08:13:28 · 18 answers · asked by slikk pikka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should tell your friend what you know and that you're disappointed in him. If he apologizes and tries to learn from his mistake, take him back. If he gets angry at you and acts like you were wrong for not having his back, tell him off and end your friendship.
2006-10-04 08:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all that not a best friend. he should solve his own problems and not put you in this. second tell him you have a problem with it. if he tell you something then just tell him it's not you who marry to his wife. he is and he need to be a man and stop cheating on his wife. if he is unhappy then why is he with his wife. because if you let him put you in this. his wife is going to be more hurt and you too in the long run. so dont put up with this **** ok. good luck.
2006-10-04 08:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Who are your loaylities to your friend or his wife? Your friend right? The worst thing to do to a friend like that is to just leave them in the cold. Just tell him to stop cheating. Dont say nothing else to his wife because what if he gets a divorce? What if you stop talking to him? He loses his soulmate & best friend which alot for someone to handle. How would you feel if your special someone and your best friend left you? Thats how i would handle it
2006-10-04 08:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by biggprincejb9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to you to set her straight but set him straight.
Tell him that you don't appreciate being used as an alibi and in the future if he uses you again and she asks you about it ; Then you intend to tell her the truth. That will determine the course your friendship will take when he finds that you are unwilling to be a party in his lies. He will either stop doing it or he will withdraw from the friendship.
2006-10-04 08:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not condone his behaviour but your not sleeping with him either . No i wouldn't say you have to give up your friendship cause he screws around. just don't pick up his bad habits you are your own man with your own mind. Plus sometimes people have more problems that what you see on the surface orwhat your friend leads you to believe. somehings are private and even friends don't always share.
2006-10-04 21:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its honorable that you told the truth, but let the couple handle it. It sucks that your friend kind of put you in the middle, but friends are hard to come by. He didnt do anything to you that is life shattering. Hang in there.
2006-10-04 08:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay out of your friend's marriage troubles, they are none of your business, if his wife asks you anything tell her you don't know and will not discuss it with her. If she wants to know what he is doing online she needs to discuss it with him or a lawyer.
2006-10-04 09:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No friend would use another as an excuse for something illegal and immoral.
With friends like this you need enemies?
Do i have to say any more?
2006-10-04 08:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let him pull you in the middle..been there and done that..i told m friends i will never lie for you and dont expect me too. why loose 2 friends when you can just loose 1
2006-10-04 08:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by Liz M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be there for my friends, but I wont lie. They know that and yours should too.
Sometimes being a good friend is reminding them their sh*t still sticks and laugh at them.
2006-10-04 08:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋