Not just physically but inside, what do you look for in her?
2006-10-04 08:02:19 · 11 answers · asked by Grazia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Many things...but one interesting thing I HAVE noticed, is how a woman who is extremely beautiful to look at, tends to only get uglier, as you get to know her (especially if she tends to rely on her looks, rather than her character, or personality to get what she wants in life.)
Conversly, a somewhat ugly gal can only get prettier each moment you get to know her better, and notice all her endearing qualities, that radiate from within. (An an average looking chick could go either way; again, based upon her personality.)
The key things that make a lady more beautiful are:
1) A willingness to be self-sacrificing, and there for others;
2) Honesty, wit & humor--including the ability to laugh at herself;
3) Enough self-esteem & self-confidence, that she never gets jealous, without just cause--and even then, it is more about the hurt behind being betrayed;
4) A nice, warm & genuine smile, that pops out frequently;
5) A reaization that not everyone thinks the same, so she does not expect others to read her mind, and always anticipate her needs, without her stating what they are;
6) An excellent, open communicator, who does not play mind games, and expect the other person to understand...someone who will openly share intimate thoughts & feelings, without fear of it being used against her inappropiately;
7) Someone who is not a golddigger--expecting expensive gifts, as if she is prostituting her charms--rather is grateful for the thought put behind each offering given in love...no matter how simple the alms;
8) Is not overly concerned with make-up (none of it tastes very good, anyway), and applies it tastefully--and sometimes not at all;
9) Is not always in competition with other women, doing things just to keep up her appearances, so she measures up against where her peers are;
10) Is loving & warm, and would rather curl up with her lover in front of a fireplace all evening, rather than veg out in front of the boob tube;
11) Does not mind being touched in sensual (non-sexual) ways throughout the day...in appropiate settings;
12) Does not constantly put extended family/children above the needs of her significant other (exceptions for crisises understandable);
13) Checks with her lover before making large purchases, major changes to her (or their home's) appearance;
And most of all,
14) Allows herself to be loved, and knows how to love back.
2006-10-04 09:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by grapejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can kill with a smile
She can wound with her eyes
She can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
Yeah, she hides like a child
But she's always a woman to me
She can lead you to love
She can take you or leave you
She can ask for the truth
But she'll never believe you
And she'll take what you give her, as long as it's free
Yeah, she steals like a thief
But she's always a woman to me
Oh-she takes care of herself
She can wait if she wants
She's ahead of her time
Oh-and she never gives out
And she never gives in
She just changes her mind
And she'll promise you more
Than the Garden of Eden
Then she'll carelessly cut you
And laugh while you're bleedin'
But she'll bring out the best
And the worst you can be
Blame it all on yourself
Cause she's always a woman to me
She is frequently kind
And she's suddenly cruel
She can do as she pleases
She's nobody's fool
But she can't be convicted
She's earned her degree
And the most she will do
Is throw shadows at you
But she's always a woman to me
2006-10-04 15:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is eternal and it comes form inside it is not just what your eyes see u can sense and feel the beauty of women beauty is in the eyes of beholder,simply means beauty is which is state of mind and not something which can be enjoyed and forgetten it remains lifetime experience
2006-10-04 15:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by gszimmermann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman that has the Spirit of God living inside her heart!
A woman that emanates the fruit of the Spirit out of her heart;
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control".
2006-10-04 15:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trim and athletic helps a lot...shows she is interested in her long term health and well being. Confident and assertive. Smart and funny because if she can put up with us guys she needs a sense of humor. If she really likes herself that projects and makes it easy to like...(and fall in love with)...her.
2006-10-04 15:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by danielh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How she carries herself.
Honesty is really beautiful. If you can find a mate or a friend that is honest to a fault, then you have a person who is true to you.
2006-10-04 15:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nice and not rude - having a sweet kind nature - with a big bunch of silliness - zany fun and love for life... and then the LOOKS...
2006-10-04 15:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tooling~guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Purity of her heart, mind, and soul. True caring and willingness to share.
2006-10-04 17:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by turbietech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-04 15:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by pok r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their compassion and caring.
2006-10-04 15:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋