So last night I was messing around w/this guy i'm dating but stopped any below the belt action. He asked why and I of course explained and he said he didn't mind. Disguising my pure disgust, I asked if he'd done that b/4 and he said he had w/his last 2 previous girlfriends. He said its a little messy but as long as you used a condom its actually quite enjoyable for both. Is anyone willing to fess up that they've done this? Is this normal or should I run away from this guy like i'm being chased?
2006-10-04 07:45:22 · 17 answers · asked by Kyppa 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Also...is it safe? Like can u get an sort of infection?
2006-10-04 09:43:31 · update #1
It's not abnormal. But could be rather messy. If you're uncomfortable with it, just don't do it because you won't enjoy it if your not comfortable.
2006-10-04 07:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done it the day before my arrives, before the big cramps hit and even before the "mess" really kicked in (after that, leave me alone please...I feel entirely too disgusting to be even remotely sexy. lol), and I was very surprised by how pleasurable it was. Everything down there was super sensitive, which made just plain ol' sex (meaning no "fireworks", not that it's boring) a little extra enjoyable. This is one of those things where it's personal preference. Because that time of the month tends to be seen as disgusting, it gets a bad rap. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having sex on your period if both parties are up for it. I've also heard the orgasms can ease cramps (not for me...it actually makes my cramps worse, everybody's different).
If you're up for it, honey, go for it!!
2006-10-04 07:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the 1st day its kind of gross, but after that the lube is nice. Use a condom and protect your sheets with a towel, and be ready to shower after if you're not jsut going to sleep. I find that using tampons instead of pads all day also helps cut back on the messiness.
As far as it being normal, I dont think theres anythign wrong with it unless it makes you feel uncomfortable. If this guy is going to tell you everything he has ever done with all of his exes, then put on your sprinting shoes. Sometimes guys will pressure you by trying to make you feel like a prude. You dont need that BS, adn he wont change. But if he only said so cuz you asked, then no harm done.
2006-10-04 07:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by ShavenLlama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never done it and probably never would. I'm with you, I find it icky! But it's not abnormal. I'd say it's a personal preference. If he really doesn't mind then you've found yourself a rather mature man so congrats. Most guys run away at the thought of a girls period at all. But maybe when you get more comfortable with him, you'll try it. Definitely don't do it if you are uncomfortable because you'll hate it. Tell him the truth, I'm sure he'll be just as okay with you not wanting to.
2006-10-04 07:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by ~mj~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, tehre's nothing wrong with it as long as the guy wipes his penis off afterwards, even if he wore a condom. And the girl needs to wipe also. I've done it a few times but would rather not. Sounds like this guy is extremely desperate to get into your pants. If he likes you as much as he says he does, and your not comfortable doing it on your period, then he should respect that, if he doesn't, then find another guy who can respect you and has more on his mind than getting in your pants.
2006-10-04 07:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't mind doing this, I have had sex while on my period. It all depends on how you feel about this, if you tried it and didn't like it for whatever reason, explain this to your man. If you do decide to have sex while on your period, keep a towel underneath you so you won't leave stains on the sheets, and make sure both of you clean up good afterwards.
2006-10-04 07:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by sexy_latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my man always do, a little blood ain't stoppin us. All my friends have their red wings to. It may just be an experience thing. You know when it will be TO messy....like on your heavy days. And it wouldn't be the best idea if you are going to be having sex for HOURS on WHITE sheets. Put something underneath you and get a quicky fix and it will be all good.
2006-10-04 07:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by biffer84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No long story. It is your choice. Stay as clean as possible. Shower and clean each other can be a lot of fun.
Remember your menses is just another body fluid like sinus and sweat just red from the lining of the uterus. Oh yes with the #1 wife many times. We never used protection either. :)
2006-10-04 08:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you're pleased with it, then you particularly could do it. additionally, i comprehend from journey, confident, you do crave intercourse greater for the period of that element, and you may even experience better doing it in the bathe. I particularly have been married for 6 years, have one baby, and with the aid of this time, you won't be able to get pregnant. Your uterus is laying off its llining and do no longer need the means to hold an egg to fertilize. you're able to have most of the superb intercourse as we communicate.
2016-10-18 11:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal...like he said sometimes it can be a lil messy. Use a condom and place a towel underneath you so you dont ruin mattress or sheets and enjoy!
2006-10-04 07:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋