2006-10-04 07:43:14 · 8 answers · asked by bebebe 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i am married to my partner it is just that i am scared of loseing another one.
2006-10-04 07:53:38 · update #1
Yes I would.You should be happy a baby is the best thing that could happen to anyone.Congratulations and try to be happy the baby could feel everything.
2006-10-04 07:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't not keep it to myself, I would explain to my partner why I am not comfortable with being pregnant at the moment. Why keep it bottled up inside it will only due future damage later, you could become resentful to the baby when born and get post pardon(or what ever it's called) depression from it and it's not healthy to you or the baby. if you are not ready to have a child yet let it be known so you can prevent it from happening till you are ready. It doesn't mean that you don't love your partner or want his children it just means that you are not ready to become a mother yet.
2006-10-04 14:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i take it this wasn't planned?
are you planning on having an abortion? adoption? or are you planning on keeping the baby but are still upset about the timing?
look, you are entitled to feelings. and you are allowed to voice them. if this partner was not to understand, not much of a partner.
i'll give you a bit of my example. june 2006 we found out i was pregnant. i was not happy. he was thrilled to death. my partner was in fact only a booty call and not even my b/f. after some talking (and growing up on my part we decided to have this baby. i had a miscarriage weeks later. now, one year later I am 6 months pregnant, married to my booty call and couldn't be happier.
Ask yourself why you are unhappy. And do something to fix that. if it can be done. And i didn't keep it to myself. he knew i wasn't happy. every so often he brings it up, but come on....we weren't even in a relationship at the time. what was there to get excited about?????
2006-10-04 15:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing about my marriage is that we can both compromise (most of the time!). We can talk openly about our feelings and respect each other. Any couple with respect would reach a decision together through compromise. I would keep my child regardless if I was happy about it or not! I don't think I could do anything else--abort or adopt! I would have far too much guilt.
2006-10-04 14:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honored that he wants you to bear his children, you should marry that one damned fast babe.....they are few and far between.
If you don't want his babies you shouldn't be sleeping with him.
2006-10-04 14:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to him about it. this way you get a chance to vent and hearing your feelings out loud may lead to the cause of your unhappiness.
2006-10-04 14:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by PYT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you were going to get rid of it...If I was going to get an abortion or something...I wouldn't say a word to ANYONE!!!
2006-10-04 14:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by motel_momma2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who wouldn't be happy to have a baby
2006-10-04 14:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Marissa P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋