a few weeks ago, i had a bf.24 hours after that, i broke up. a few day after that, he wanted me back again so i said yes (boy i'm stupid). today (oct.4th) i broke up with him cuz the half of the school know about it and he wanted it to be a "secret" relationship. when we got back the last time, he never said that. how do i get over it? i fgt to mention that i'm a depressive chick and have depressions everytime something painful happens. my mom doesn't know about and i'm scared to tell her about it, i donno how she will react! plz help ppl!!
hugs and kisses,
MiLkA
2006-10-04 07:43:07 · 16 answers · asked by KK 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
THere's more boys in this world
but i think you should tell your mom
2006-10-04 07:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Milka please talk and tell your mom how you are feeling she may be worried about you and has already guessed something is up. Once many years ago I knew my daughter was upset about something and she found it difficult to tell me and the more I asked the more she went into a shell. One night she come downstairs and gave me a letter telling me all her problems I was so relieved she had told me and together we sorted it all out.
Write her a letter if you find it difficult to talk.
As for the boy forget him he is not worth the worry why would he want things to be secret he should be proud to have you as a girlfriend not hiding you away.
2006-10-09 09:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by momof3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey go to your mum and tell her as it will make you feel better having someone close to talk it all over with. I am sure she will be sound about it and it will also help with you feeling down. She probably thinks your just being a stroppy teenager at the moment but if she knows why she will be more understanding. As for the boy kick him to the kerb. If you are not good enough for him to let everyone know you are an item then he ain't worth it. Hope you find someone better and good luck babe
2006-10-11 04:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go hun! keep ur head up high and dont let no 1 stop u doin what u want 2 do! i bet u no were u want 2 go in life so just go there and dont let no 1 get in way!!!! ive just told my parents that i have a boyfriend and its the best thing i ever dun after keepin it secret 4 so long i can now sit down and tlk 2 my mother about things i ever though i could. theres loads more lads out there just take ur tym 2 fine the right 1 !!!! gd luck chicn XX
2006-10-10 01:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're best off without this guy. He's behaving as if he can click his fingers and have you running. As for secret relationship, well, don't even consider giving him another moments thought. You're too good for him, you will find that the person who's right for you will do all the running and make you feel special. Also he'll want the world to know. Please don't fret, I know how it feels, just be strong in your own self worth.
2006-10-08 11:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man that wants to hide a relationship is not worth the hassle. You should forget about him and find someone that will make you happy. Not sad. You should confide in your mum. Mums know more than you think. And will probably surprise you about how much she knows on the subject! Good luck
2006-10-04 09:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by Teresa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really talk to your mother or a guidance counselor or any adult that you really trust... it's dangerous to keep things in... espcially when u start to feel depressed about it... I remeber moving in back with my dad after i left my mom in atlanta... everything was so different with his new wife and my new little sister... I felt so left out... it caused me to be depressed and sad all the time... to the point where I even thought about death!... NO LIE... after a while i talked to my friends and they helped me get through it... talk it out to someone... and don't worry about one stupid boy... they're many other great guys in this world who are meant just for you... plus i bet ur a beautiful girl with lots to offer... don't worry about one dumb guy... hope it all work out... God Bless... hugs and kisses back!
2006-10-04 07:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Shanay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Milka
i think you deserve much better than him you need someone who will take care of you and who wouldnt care if you told anyone about you meeting them ive had it done to me and when my bf found out i told people he dumped me and i cried for days my best friend (who is a boy) told me i was stupid to cry ova him he sed "boys are not worth crying over" so ever since then i havent and i think you are better off without him
from
Emma
2006-10-10 03:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by Em Luvs SVS Indeed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
milka i am a mom the wisest in the world you know lol. no we are your best friends try and chat with your mom i am sure she will have been there bless. dont worry love it all part of growing go on tell mom x
2006-10-06 12:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure you've had sex before so he probably had no one else to do so he came back to you with those sorrowful eyes...boys!... they all the same. he wanted a secretive relationship? girl if he was proud of you and loved he would have shown you off. so snap out of it and move on, he aint the first or was he?..he ain tha last trust me hard to believe but you live with it and you can adapt like you do with change of season ok think of it as a change of season. goodluck!
2006-10-10 15:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by ganja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel and unfortunately its a case of time heals al wounds, when i have issues with my boyfriend (we have broken up a couple of times) i turn off my phone and ignore his calls and texts and he suddenly comes running back asking whats wrong and why i won't talk to him, you could also try talking to your man and explaining how you feel, but any guy who wants to keep your relationship secret has serious issues, anything secret is bad. I hope that helps you
2006-10-09 15:57:58 · answer #11 · answered by Jennifer W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋