I have never been in this situation before,and its un-natural,for my own personal self.I 'm not real comfortable,but care about their happiness as well.
2006-10-04 07:38:58 · 11 answers · asked by too_many_hatz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Rent another place. You may care for him but your happiness is first....He should respect your feelings also.......Everybody should make an effort....If he wants to live with his boyfriend he needs to rent his own appartment....
2006-10-04 07:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Valerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not good for 2 families (regardless of dynamics) to live together. Talk with your husband and say that you would prefer the 2 of you have a place of your own. Give the brother-in-law and his partner a 2-3 month notice so they can find a place. Still have a relationship with them, but doesn't have to be under one roof
2006-10-04 14:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your feelings to your husband first. He should respect your comfort and happiness. If he doesn't want to talk to his bro, then tell him you will. Tell bro, ya love him, then just explain that how you feel. He wouldn't want others beliefs pushed onto him, tell him you are asking for the same respect.
2006-10-04 17:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it. You will get used to it. You have every right to feel any way you want but you should also respect your husband's wishes.
2006-10-04 14:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that times have changed & now that they want to live together,,you think everyone should have their own place for privacy as any couple would.
2006-10-04 14:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your husband your feelings. Eventhough he is helping his family he needs to think about your feelings to. And if you two have a good communication relationship you should talk to him about your feelings. Good Luck
2006-10-04 14:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Solitaire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that they need to move out.... it will EVENTUALLY cause big problems... also your boyfriend should respect the morals that you have and he should put you first over them... its two of them they need to get out and get their own place... I hope you guys dont have children in the home.
2006-10-04 14:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by caligrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you got them living with you?
2006-10-04 14:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by dot&carryone. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bet he's playing around with your husband as well
just enjoy it
2006-10-04 14:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by wwJad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a nice environment. Tell him to find his own little nest where he and his friend can play daddies and mammies................
2006-10-04 14:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋