My anut died at easter of cancer it all happened really quickly and she was only 40 odds. Ive now bought her old house. Last night i had a dream that it was someone in the familys birthday and we were all out for dinner. My aunt that died was there and she looked as pretty as she used to be - a forgot to say she was a really pretty woman and the cancer really deterioted her it was hard to watch. anyway i went over to her see how she was and she said shes in a much better place and to let everyone know shes ok now! but what does it mean! my aunt dying was a horrible shock on our family and id love to know if she is ok and still there if you know what I mean!
2006-10-04 07:35:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Do not mourn her. Be happy for who she was and celebrate her existance in this planet.
2006-10-04 07:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by pamela s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, let me say, that I am sorry for the sadness that you feel having lost your aunt, such a short time ago. Now the dream interpretation:
The birthday party (of a family member) represents celebration, the fact that you were all out to dinner, signifies nourishment and fulfillment. I would first like to say, that this dream is actually a visitation and a message from your aunt. She is saying that her death is cause for celebration (not sadness and grief), as she was able to leave this world, that had brought on her pain. She has been nourished by the great beyond, and she is saying, that you should find something wonderful about her to "hold on to" and to nurture yourself with. I am thinking that she had a way of "nurturing" others. She has become a beautiful woman again (in your dreams), because her message to you, is that she has "transformed" from being terribly ill, to a state of well being, this she is showing you, by becoming beautiful again. She also has no sorrow and no pain, only beauty surrounds her now. She realized that , watching her "deteriorate," was a very hard thing for you to do. One of the reasons that she has come back to you in your dream, like this now,......is to show you, that she is no longer ill and "deteriorated" so to speak........but very well indeed. This is her gift to you. A "hello" if you will, from the other side.
2006-10-04 17:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by amber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your appearance changes, eg hair cut, an injury, when you dream you'll be back to normal. If you've recently moved and you have a dream you'll probably dream your still in your old house etc. You go out for someones birthday normally your aunt would be there so in the dream she is. You see her so you ask her exactly what you would in waking (in the dream state it's all normal), she gives you the answer she would if she was there, that she is in a better place etc. So you do know that she is o.k. as this is what she would tell you in waking life.
Some would say this comes from your subconscious, other would say it's a message from your aunt. Perhaps it's a combination of both a spiritual message from your aunt via your subconscious.
2006-10-04 15:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by RubberCat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I share exactly the same problem as you, except for the dream part. I think it`s you`re brain that made you dream this dream. Sometimes, to ease the blow, our bodies produce certain chemicals to help us suffer less. Maybe the dream you had was maid by you`re brain to comfort you in you`re time of need. This is comeing from a rational man.
2006-10-04 16:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After my grandpa died i had a few dreams where he was there. He always seemed happy, just like he always was. I have come to the conclusion that it was indeed my grandpa coming to me in my dream to let me know that he was ok and doing just fine. I suspect that your Aunt is doing the same thing. Consider it a blessing. She just wants to let u know that she is infact in a better place and is doing well.
Blessed Be!
2006-10-04 14:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by octoberfallingleaves 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey the dream you had answers everything about how she is, take into light okay, shes fine now shes not in pain and now shes just as beautiful as ever, and i bet she just wanted you to no that so dont keep that dream inside shere it with the family and let it be known that she is fine and happy and still as beautiful as you remember, HUGS
2006-10-04 23:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by mysterious26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to know if she is still there. If she has visited you once I'm sure she'll visit again. And if she's there she'll leave something for you to find. Something really subtle and small. and in an odd place that gets your attention.
My mother still visits my dreams and I find feathers in the oddest places and dimes are popular also.
2006-10-04 18:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by morticiamoodyb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you dream of a loved one in
good health in the dream even though
they did not have it in life and they come to
you all they wanted you to know there doing
better and not suffering anymore and their in
a better place.
2006-10-04 17:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by rudy_alvarez88 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's been restored and in a good place. She wants you to stop agonizing over her death. She knows it was sudden, but the cancer was destroying her but although she had to die to escape it, she no longer has to suffer the pain, and she wants you and your family to live your lives knowing that and not to suffer the pain of losing her. God bless you and your family
2006-10-04 15:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by just curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Octoberfallingleaves has the right of it. Your aunt is in a better pplace and she is making certain that you and your family know that.
Blessings on you!
2006-10-04 15:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know she's ok and she just proved it to you! She is fine and healthy now, and wanted you to know that. Tell your other family members about it and what she said to you. I'm sure they've had visits of her as well.
2006-10-04 23:46:16 · answer #11 · answered by pattycake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋