When I was in High School me & a few friends once snatched up this nerdy kid & gave him a swirlie in the boy's bathroom. (Swirlie = being where you flush a person's head in the toilet as a humilating prank) ...Well, turns out that later on in life this kid killed himself & unknown to me I was dating his sister for 2 months. One morning I woke up to find myself bound in front of the toilet with her standing over me. (I still have no idea how I got there) I was scared shitless as Becca (that's the girl I was dating) was standing over me & she told me about her brother & how he killed himself because he got picked on so much. It seems I had getting played the whole time & Becca was never really intrested in me, but just trying to get back at me. Well, this is no laughing matter because she almost drowned me to death in the toilet that day after flushing my head nearly 30 times. I am so sorry for what I did but did I deserve that or should I press charges? I'd be embarassed to report it.
2006-10-04 07:31:01 · 12 answers · asked by PJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What's good for the goose is good for the gander but then again two wrongs don't make a right. Maybe you didn't realise how much hurt you inflicted on someone or whether you really cared when you were at High school. Becca may have had her revenge but she is still without a brother - maybe now you know how her brother felt.
2006-10-04 07:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dragon Empress 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Live with what happened and use it as a warning not to do anything like it ever again. Then write her a letter telling her how sorry you are about it and how she feels and that it will stay with you the rest of your life.... Then become an advocate against bullies in schools! School bulling has lead to several deaths or suicides in the last few years. There are several websites to help you begin to become an advocate. Speak out against bullies. Redemption might come if you just manage to stop one bully or prevent one death. Good Luck if you are truly sorry for what you did....I'll pray for you if you are only sorry for what happened to you making you think of him.
2006-10-04 14:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by toogoodtobebad2000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well....like I was always told (and now tell my kids) treat others the way you would like to be treated. As far as being played and having that happen to you I don't believe you deserved it that bad. It wasn't only your fault for what he did. But whatever you gave him yes you did deserve it. Not to be rude but like I said treat others the way you would like to be treated. As far as pressing charges do you really want to and do you feel she should be punished for what she did? Also do you think she would even get punished for it or would it just be a waste of time?
2006-10-04 14:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Butterfly effect...karma is really something...now I bet you think before you act because someone might get hurt and then they will hurt you....I don't feel sorry for you... universial law was in effect...what comes around goes around....when you do evil...expect retribution to be 3 times more evil...that kid killed himself...you probably messed the kid's headup...made him a basketcase...well, hopefully; you got to screw his sister..so it was'nt a total loss.
2006-10-04 14:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the general consensus--you deserved everything you got! Serves you right BULLY!!!
2006-10-04 14:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You deserved it you prick. Good going. Look what you did. How do you sleep at night?
2006-10-04 14:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You deserved it
2006-10-04 14:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow this story sounds so fake
2006-10-04 14:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by fall 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
You deserved it. You were a jerk.
2006-10-04 14:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by non_apologetic_american 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yea you deserved it
2006-10-04 14:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by sharkmann25 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋