well I've known her for 2 years now, and when I first met her, she was sooo into me, she hanged out with me, we talked all the time, we had a great time, (but at the same time I liked her) then a year later, when I started going crazy and out of control with her, I would always talk about her, and I admit, I sorta stalked her, then for a while after she yelled at me, we didn't talk for a long time, so now this year, I still like her, and I want to get a chance to talk to her but everytime I talk to her, she just ignores me or just shuts me up, and sometimes she talks to me for a day and then the next day, she acts like she dosent know me. What should I do? I wanna be able to talk to her without any trouble!
2006-10-04 07:25:57 · 4 answers · asked by livethemomentz97 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your coming on too strong. She fears what happened last year and probably felt smothered at that time. I'd sit and write her a letter - not real sappy, but just put down your feelings. Ask her for a "second chance". But this time, fight the need to talk to her everyday - don't call every single day, or try to find her all the time. Let her know you like her very much, but at the same time, keep your distance. If she likes you - she'll come around. If she doesn't, then simply stop all contact. Sometimes, people want what they think they cannot have. So once you've expressed to her how you feel, if she does not respond, just back off completely. If she likes you, she'll FIND YOU! good luck!
2006-10-04 07:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u must make her realize what u were to her.
try going out with someone else,some pretty girl perhaps.make her realize that u cared for her but dont care for her anymore...keep this act on for 4-5 days and then try talking romantically to her.
2006-10-04 14:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by tonima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...i've been in this situation before.....do you have her e-mail address?..If you do...e-mail her so she doesn't feel like she HAS to e-mail you back...but make sure you make it casual...simple...DO NOT make it seem like you were waiting to send her one for a long time...just say hey..sup.
2006-10-04 14:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by badgurlz_313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her that you have changed, grown up a lot since the last time
2006-10-04 14:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋