for WHATEVER reason, to embarass and humiliate both my son and myself in front of this person. My son lives on his own and works full time and Ifeel my husband was malicioiusly trying to show this guy...someone my son went to school with, that HE is a winner, how come MY son is not??? Husband denies that was his intention. He claims he was merely pointing out how things can turn out in life...better for some.
I say if that was the case he would have just said so and not asked "Why doesnt DAVID" buy a house??? THIS GUY DID!!! Like it was some riddle, only he had the answer all along to SHOW me that he had NO help......and managed to do better than my son in the same situations in life meaning my son isnt as....hardworking? What I dont know. All i know is I felt definite malicious purpose on my husbands part...who LOVES to use sarcasm on a regular basis. Do you think his intentions were totally innocent or am I right?
2006-10-04 07:23:05 · 12 answers · asked by Mom of 7 gramma of 3 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
OK, now I'm done with it.
Honey, go find someone you can pay to care about this. Do you really think that we can tell you what your husband was intending to do.
All I can say is that if he has to live with this, sarcasm may be his only way of surviving and holding on to some modicum of sanity.
2006-10-04 07:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by stimply 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right he's an *** and you son is doing the best he can. I didn't buy my house til I was 30 and I lived with my mother after i got out of college and about 2 years before I bought my house for 7 months.
2006-10-04 08:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would be able to desire to in easy terms pass away his sorry *** on my own. He ain't doing u or your little ones no good! do no longer overlook, u have a sprint one on your abdomen, i'm optimistic he's feeling each little thing your dealing with. it somewhat is in basic terms too plenty rigidity! U calling ur husband would not make him desire to pass back to you. you would be able to desire to break up. I understand why your loved ones isn't as supportive... they are truly, they do exactly no longer desire to take a seat around and watch you enable him to continuously harm you and the little ones. His family is actual supportive because of the fact its HIS family. They comprehend how a good number of a sorry *** he's! They pity you! and that i've got faith undesirable for you too. a guy would desire to by no potential placed a woman by using those kind of subject concerns. yet he would desire to no longer substitute no time quickly. do no longer waist some time calling or texting. Straighten up! carry your head up! Be good! you apart from would have a woman descendant there with you... placed all your concentration on her. Make a plan for your self that would not incorporate him, yet will make it easier to get in the time of here few months. Its gonna be hard. yet you're able to do it!
2016-10-01 22:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men couldn't be direct if their lives depended on it. They always have to seem as if they are making a point and that their point is correct.
Now before the men start bashing me, I love you guys, but some of you were taught at an early age not to say how you feel. And some of you will go around Robin Hood's barn twice to make a simple point.
2006-10-04 07:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix Rising 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are occasionally idiots. He probably thought he was providing inspiration to your son by pointing out what he could have or should have acheived. Your husband sounds insensitive but I wouldn't necessarily call him cruel or that his intent was to humiliate you or your son....it's hard to make that kind of determination based on one incident though. Does he make a habit of these kinds of comments? If so, then I would say, yes, it was his intent to embarass your son (probably not you though) but I'm sure he's convinced himself he was doing it for your son's own good.
2006-10-04 07:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by bug927 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well...your husband sounds like my father.
It was all right for others to do better than he did, but not for any of the four of us.
He can be quite sarcastic about it.
I doubt your husband will ever own up to it. I don't know what to tell you. My mother just rolls her eyes and says, "Here we go again..."
Edit: I want to know why Judge Joe Brown is dissing all of us...But since he brings it up, my husband and I didn't own a house until we were in our late 30s.
2006-10-04 07:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by tantiemeg 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know ....maybe you two should stop being so concerned about your sons life and put a little energy in saving your marriage.
2006-10-04 07:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by pritty_princess_c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't feel he was innocent. He was baiting you I think. Are you really unhappy being with him? If so, maybe you need to talk to someone about your options and what you want to do with your life.
2006-10-04 08:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Pepper's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I read your other question's and I would feel the same way you do- That he made these comparisons to 'put down' you or your son.
2006-10-04 08:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by arl21amber 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think your husband is an arrogant s.o.b.who is needy, jealous,insecure and abusive.You do not need to stay married 2 him he is a little insecure boy.....
2006-10-04 07:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by BEERBELLY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋