my dad is a great guy but this shower thing is sonething new. he washes my back and now he does my front. he wants me to wash him in front. I told mom and she says it doesnt mean anything, let him have his fun. I wont be 18 till jan.
2006-10-04 07:18:20 · 45 answers · asked by rosebud 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nice try, but I don't believe you!
2006-10-04 07:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't matter how old you are, what your father is doing just doesn't seem right. Most people would question his actions, and it is surpirising that your mom does not. Taking a shower with other guys, even your dad in like a gym locker room is one thing, but having a father and son taking a shower in a home bathroom just doesn't seem like it is normal. The excuse of being in a hurry doesn't make much sense either. You should tell him that it makes you uncomfortable, which I assume is why you asked about it on here. If he does not respect your feelings you should seek help. Possibly from your local church if you attend or from another adult that you trust like a teacher or principal.
2006-10-04 07:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by rangerbanks 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is clearly child abuse(molestation) touching is just as harmful and anything else ....start taking your shower at a later or earlier time your mother is just as sick as your father.she's letting him do this so she can keep the pervert .think about it if he's in a hurry why don't he just wash his own ***.nah this ain't right and your mom said the worst thing ever "LET HIM HAVE HIS FUN" is she crazy ....you need to talk to a counselor at school or clearly tell your dad that he's oversteppin his boundaries.o.k if you don't think anything is wrong with it then tell your boyfriend and see what he says..............put a stop to this before something else happens
2006-10-04 07:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how it first start out . Try getting up earlier and taking a shower if he still jumps in with you its a problem your mom don't want to see it he shouldn't even want to take a shower with you. you need your privacy. Don't let your dad wash you !!!!! When you start to get pubic hair is when they don't need to see you naked anymore. Your mom saying let him have his "fun" one day that fun going to turn into some kind of nightmare.
2006-10-04 08:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there is something wrong with that.... Anything that makes you feel uncomfortable is not right for anyone to do. Your father shouldnt be getting in the shower with you and you mother should listen did you tell her you dont like it. If you are still in school then you should talk to you school cousilor.
2006-10-04 07:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by mistyrenee2006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is defintely not appropriate. You should tell someone what is happening since your mom wont listen. Speak to a counselor at school and let them know. They can help you. They can get in touch with the authorities that need to be called. Child protective services should be involved in this.
2006-10-04 07:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well tell them both this has to stop-better still tell your school counselor or some other adult that you can trust. This is NOT OK at all and I am sorry but they are not good parents! When you are away from them get in touch with social services and report this abuse right away! This is sick! Call the police if you have to but get away from this situation!
2006-10-04 07:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is for real then there is a problem here. If it bothers you and it should and your parents don't understand then they are in need of help. He shouldn't be doing that at all. you are not a baby. Try taking a shower at another time of day and see what happens. If it persists tell someone who can help you.
2006-10-04 07:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF this is really happening... which I have my doubts about... and you have told your mom and she dosn't think it is a problem ... then you need to tell a teacher or an adult at your school. You need to tell an adult what is going on and keep telling people (who you trust) what is going on until someone takes you seriously!!!
Now... if no one at school will listen... then how about church?
if not that then call the police!
his is molestation at least and your dad needs to get some help!
2006-10-04 07:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by .... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are just joking. That is wrong, wrong, wrong. You are to old for your dad to be in the shower or anywhere with you naked. He shouldn't be touching you either. My dad molested me for 19 years and if I had the help back then that kids do now it would have stopped years ago. So please don't let him do that anymore. It isn't right.
2006-10-04 07:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by bfm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your dad is a pedophile and your mom is either off her rocker or she's also getting her jollies out of this. Run.....don't walk, to your nearest police station before it's too late!
2006-10-04 07:25:07 · answer #11 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋