2006-10-04 07:13:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am a first born all the way. I get along with adults better than people my own age (although that is slowly changing) or younger people. I am bossy, a perfectionist, and like a second mom to my three younger brothers. I have a tendency to take the lead in most situations and am very opinionated. My next brother down is 5 years younger than me, which has created these two seperate family dynamics. It was always me and the boys. The oldest boy also displays first born qualities because of the age gap. My entire family fits the profile perfectly. It would also explain why I don't get on with my mum as much, since she is also the first born in her family. I have also noticed that being good friends with other first borns is hard since we always want our own way. Despite all of this I love being the oldest and I am who I am because of it.
2006-10-04 07:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by Venus M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's one that throws birth order right out of the question! I am a twin, identical twin. My sister was born a minuet before me. But when it comes to the way we act, I act more like the first born, whereas she acts more like a 2nd born. Has it affected my personality? Yes, I think so I am an insane perfectionist always running myself ragged with to many responsibilities. Where my sister expects everything to be done for her, then whines and cries when she is over looked
It effects my relationships because I do so much I rarely have time for myself so I drain myself to the point I have nothing left for anyone else. Naturally, that puts a strain on any relationship I may have. Hope that helps!
2006-10-05 11:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by essexsrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest my birth order has not affected my personality. I am the oldest of two daughters. There are six years between myself and my younger sister. Also,being the first born has not affected my personal or work relationships either. However, I still receive pressure from my mother to "set the example" or "act like the oldest." And from time to time I will make a decision based upon my birth order for example, If I am out shopping and I am uncertain about purchasing a certain top or bottom or even shoe---I will reason that if my younger sister would wear it--then I should not buy it.
2006-10-04 07:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am the oldest. My sister was always compared to me so I had to always be the best and she felt that no matter what she did she wouldn't measure up so she didn't even try. Because she was the 'bad' kid and I was the 'good' kid I would get into more trouble for smaller things. Like if I made a C on a test I'd get lectured, but if she did they wouldn't say anything because they expected her to. I felt I had alot of pressure put on me to maintain the good image. Still do a little to this day.
2006-10-04 07:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Rainy Days and Mondays 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the youngest of 4 kids. I'm spoiled, used to getting my way, want to be independant but can't seem to work without a net. Don't like being alone ( cus I never was), I wear my heart on my sleeve, am a total doormat, and very nuturing.
I am a text book youngest child.
2006-10-04 07:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by ~mj~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the middle child. Hasn't affected me a bit in any relationship whether its romance, work or friendship.
2006-10-04 07:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the oldest and I have the typical type A personality that first Born's stereotypically have.
2006-10-04 07:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by Chris J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it does have an effect. I am a middle child and I think it fits me. I took a test on tickle.com. You have to look under the PHD made tests. It is very interesting. :)
2006-10-04 07:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by Christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋